I was out waiting in line with my friend, and this guy and his friend were talking. And I heard one of them say to the other guy while looking at me, "Dude.. haha, she needs Brava or something." (Supposedly makes your chest bigger, but not the point.) I'm really small chested. It hurt my feelings so badly. I know I shouldn't let it bother me.. but how can I forget about it and not let it get to me? I guess I just need some words of wisdom or something.. thanks.
2006-08-17 06:44:00 · 19 answers · asked by Katelyn 4 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
You will need to toughen up a bit. People (especially immature guys (and they stay immature for a LONG time) say hurtful things. Let's be honest, you don't KNOW these guys, and even if you did, so what? They are at an age where they are unsure of themselves too (trust me, they are scared out of their wits and deathly afraid of rejection and a host of other things), and they try and cover it up with negative comments about others. They try and seem "cool" to one another and saying what they did about you made the one guy feel big - temporarily.
I remember someone said something similar about me a LONG, LONG time ago. And you know what...I survived! At the time I felt bad but soon forgot about it and you have to as well. I grew up, went on to college, got a great job (a few of them), a car, an apartment, and finally a husband, a home, and all the rest of the good stuff in life. I am a successful writer and look a heck of a lot younger than most people in my age category (you don't want to know how old that is). Dear, try and remember that when people say hurtful things they are hurting inside themselves and so afraid of being hurt, so they quickly try and say something they think is cool. Also, let's be honest there are mean people out there who will say and do hurtful things. It's part of life and there is no way around it. It's not right, but it just is. Good luck and have a great life!
2006-08-17 06:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Fact: He was some dumb guy you didn't even know.
Fact: He is a shallow @ss.
Fact: You are the only one that needs to be happy with the way you look.
Fact: Big breasts aren't all they are cracked up to be. Be happy that you are smaller, you won't be saggy at 30.
Fact: Most of the beautiful women in this world than men drool over either are small, or they aren't naturally big. Padded bras and surgery are about the only way you'll see a full busted skinny woman.
As much as his words hurt, take comfort in the fact that you are beautiful as you. You are small for now, but you may grow when you get older. Take comfort in the fact that your body can change until around 20. You may gain a cup size at 19. You never know.
If you really feel that you are too small, and it's something you want, not because of somebody else, then look into a padded and/or push-up bra. I know it's shallow and vain, but sometimes a little help can make a world of difference in the way we feel about ourselves. It's not that different than coloring our hair or putting on makeup. It's something that makes us feel better, or something that we like to wear to look nice. Just make sure if you buy one, that you buy for you not someone else.
2006-08-17 07:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to those guys...beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and there are plenty of guys out there that like small chests. I am small chested too, and I use to worry that I wouldn't be attractive to anybody because of my small size. But as it turns out, I'm now married and my hubby loves my size and wouldn't change it for anything. Another thing, life is a lot more enjoyable when you're smaller. I've got a few friends that are well endowed and they tell me how painful a lot of just everyday actions (running, etc) are when you've got all that weight bouncing up and down. It's taken me a little while to get used to it, but I am actually very thankful for my small chest. It is not the end of the world to have a small chest. Cheer up...everything will be okay. :)
2006-08-17 08:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Amber I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey venice dear... dont let all this thing get into ur head.. u dnt knw how uglyit looks to have big chest.. nd dear v women have o go under soooo many things like feeding a kid nd vnice dat wud make ur big boobs go loose which no woman will wud like 2 hve.. be happy and think urself fortunate enuf to have small boobs.. i guess u luk damn cute nd be the way u r.. dont let neone else judge ur body and dnt get carried away with these ugly thoughts of ugly guys.. thank god for a wonderfull body and smile always..
2006-08-17 09:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by jovijo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a Padded or water bra. By the way, how old are you, you might not be finished growing. Another thing are you real skinny try putting on weight.
But, as man get older, they look at the whole package, including a woman looks and personality, not just body parts.
Some man prefer small boobs, really, it has suprised me when looking at yahoo, questions and answers how many prefer smaller boobs.
Plus fortunate you, no hanging boobs when you are older.
2006-08-17 06:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by sweet smile 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, I LIKE women with small breasts! Prefer them over the big breasted girls - they look like bovine milk machines to me.
Ever notice how a lot of athletic women have small breasts, but muscular legs? That's what I like. Big breasts, to me, look silly and useless. Yes, some guys like them, but we are all different in our tastes. Don't let that 14 year old dork bother you, and whatever you do, don't get implants. Work out, eat right, be friendly, and you will be attractive to many guys!
2006-08-17 06:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy Eagle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way, I would love to have a smaller chest. I have a G CUP set and despise it! In stead of having men not ogle at you, you have all of them ogling at you.
2006-08-17 10:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Katelyn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of guys that prefer natural no matter the size. Do not pay attention to this immature frat boy. There are real men out there.
2006-08-17 06:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He probably has a small !@#$. I know it's difficult, but don't let what people say hurt you. There is nothing wrong with a small chest!
2006-08-17 06:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well as a guy i kinda like a small breasted women if you can keep up a good conversation contact me
2006-08-17 06:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by mario c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋