A) No. Most people marry because they love each other
B) Yes. Most people marry to have a fulfilling sex relationship
C) Maybe. People marry because they think they are in love, yet the idea of a fulfilling sex life acts as a huge catalyst.
D) No. Sex is not at all important. People get married without even the thought of having sex with their partners on their mind.
2006-08-17 06:11:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A is best for me. Married for love, almost 25 years ago. Still are romancing and hoping for another 25!
2006-08-17 06:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about......
E. People get married usually because they believe they love each other and want to make a commitment before God and friends and family and the law that they will be true only to each other and stay together until dealth but after saying that sexual chemistry is a must because a marriage cannot last without a good sex life. Its like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, you cant have that without both contributing factors.
2006-08-17 13:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by amanda m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B) Yes. Most people marry to have a fulfilling sex relationship
2006-08-17 13:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C) Maybe. People marry because they think they are in love, yet the idea of a fulfilling sex life acts as a huge catalyst.
Nevertheless...
Although, I don't agree with premarital sex, I think nowadays, people do not get married just because they want to have sex, because they can get it anywhere, anytime, which it's sad. Maybe, before they would get married because of sexual urges or they were in love and wanted to consummate it, therefore they'd get married.
Currently, people get married beyond sexual urges or just to be friends. I think, they get married because they feel intimacy, passion and commitment; they are attracted physically, intellectually/emotionally and spiritually to each other; they're best friends with chemistry and passion.
2006-08-17 13:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by Armerys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B.) Yes. Most people marry to have a fulfilling sex relationship.
2006-08-17 13:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by lhee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, to me first of all, tosay people get married out of lust is not a true statement for all.
Perhaps you meant to start it with - If?
i think A is true for some - whether they know fully what love is - thats another question.
C is probably true of alot of people - especially men.
My grandparents always said (married for like 60 years)
Sex and attraction is an important PART of a relationship, however RESPECT is more important along with a deep FRIENDSHIP, UNCONDITIONAL love and COMMUNICATION. The bodie will deterioate with time and nature, but the rest is all lasting with the right partner.
2006-08-17 13:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by sarahbobarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C.
With the addition that most seem to get taught that lust and love are the same thing. Try reading a modern romance novel and find where love actually occurs in most of them. Now compare that to most romance novels set in the Regency period lacking the major "climax" scenes and see where love really has to be based on something else. Too many are getting their sex drive confused for deeper and longer lasting emotions. sex is pushed so hard as a taboo outside of marriage that lust must then be named something else to avoid the sin of lust.
2006-08-17 14:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by Moonsilk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say none of the above, that it is rather due to emotional type of lust rather than purely/simply sexual- ie, an immaturity, a lack of a proper definition or concept of love, a succumbing to social pressures about relationships vs. solidarity, a fear of criticism/rejection for being on one's own, and so forth.
Sex is too easily obtained without institute of marriage, that I would hardly consider it a marrying factor in our present day.
2006-08-17 14:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by Yentl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C is correct. They rush into things too quickly because they don't have anyone else in their life, and getting married is their way of cementing the still relatively new relationship. Then they have kids and only after do they realize they it might not work out. In a year there might be divorce and eventually child custody battles.
In other words, the 1980's will happen.
2006-08-17 13:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A.. :) because most people get married because they are in love.... When they love each other sex is important but it is gonna be good when u love the other person
2006-08-17 13:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋