ok so there's this girl that i like, and i think she likes me too but i am not sure, what do i do? do i tell her that i have feelings for her or not?
2006-08-17 05:54:08 · 18 answers · asked by coolio 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes you should tell her how you feel...........regardless of is she feels the same way or not........Just knowing that you made the 1st step in telling her will make you feel good about yourself and it will be something that you won't regret later...........Good Luck
2006-08-17 06:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by SexeyMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel out the situation first before you come straight out and tell her. Ask her out a couple of times, find out if she is dating someone or is interested in someone. Does she act like she likes you? If you can't read her at first, then you should show her that your interested.
2006-08-17 06:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to movie or out to eat and talk to her to see if she's really feeling you. You can tell in a girl when she likes you or not.
2006-08-17 06:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by Latoya W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to go for things you want..and then accept what happens. when they say "be a man", they mean to act on what you want and need in your life...but in a *positive* way. remember, you LIKE this person! it is a flattering thing! u are pretty much saying this girl is great, and u want to get to know her better!
now, if she says no, ......so what? at least you know u don't have to waste ur time on her anymore. all this time spent worrying about asking her out or not, u couldv'e nipped it in the bud right then and there. if she says yes, great. try to get to know her better, see if there is potential there. if she says no, then u will know she is not someone u need or want to go out with. because u don't need to go out with someone who is Not Interested. and it doesn't mean u are bad, or stupid, or ugly, it just means she's not right for you, and won't give u a chance.
and remember, girls will let u know when they Don't want something. so if u ask her, and she says yes, great. don't be nervous. go for what u want if u like her. later on , if u want to kiss her, don't hesitate. try to kiss her. if she likes you, she will kiss u back. if she is unsure, she will tell you. if she Doesn't like you, she will Stop you. you need to just respect a woman's decision, but u have to Let Her Know what page you are on. figure out what u want, let her know, and see if she responds. if she wants to be on the same page as you, she will. if she doesn't, she will say "no". that's it. u just have to make sure you are a trustworthy person, that ur "page" is good intentioned. if not, u can hardly get mad if she doesnt' want to be on the same page. if it is, and she chooses not to move forward, it is her decision and not yours. therefore, all u can do is be a great guy, work on urself to make sure you are a great catch, and wait for a woman who is also a great catch who WANTS to be with you. Never wait and pine over someone who Doesn't want you! good luck, and never question urself or the woman's actions... u'll never know until u do something about it, and usually a woman is waiting for those signs to see if YOU like them! as a man, u need to be firm and strong in what u want, and then go for it. like i said, if a woman likes you, she will follow where you lead. good luck.
2006-08-17 06:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation with a guy i like i have debated over and over what to do and the way i figure out if someone likes me is through friends ask your buddies to ask around (like to her friends) or you just ask her friends herself or if you are really confident then ask her yourself
2006-08-17 06:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by bowlerljj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have got some really good answer's, however it hurts to be rejected so just let her know you are interested without being pushy. She will probably be flattered you noticed her, as well it will happen if meant to be. You take it by her ques.
2006-08-17 06:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by doodle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you try to get to know her more, once you're sure that she truly likes you than tell her your feelings.
2006-08-17 06:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by Juventina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want anything to happen, you must tell her, or at least give her a hint and wait for reaction
2006-08-17 06:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by Danijela D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and ask her out. Don't be cheap but don't be extravagant either, shell expect it later. A movie and dinner is a good first date.
2006-08-17 06:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Tias 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her at the end of the week so if she says sorry i dont like you like that then your have all weekend to try and get over it
2006-08-17 06:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋