my bf broke up with me yester day after we went out for 1 month i saw him yester day and we were tottally fine we cuddled did BF Gf stuff and then i hugged him and kissed him good by before he left to go to his house he said he loved me and that he will call me not even like 5 hours later my best friend called me and said he broke up up with me i called him to mmake sure it was true and burst into tears over the phone he said that i was going to break up with him eney way and another girl liked him and he kinda liked he a little bit to so he dumps me and go for the other girl how do u just dump a girl like that after u guy were tottally fine i really dont get it how did this happen ?!?!?!
2006-08-17 05:42:29 · 12 answers · asked by sprinkle0girl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You really can't be to upset about it, i'm not exactly sure of your age but if you are younger its nothing to worry about these things come and go. Just remember to keep your friends really close and never ditch them for your BF. To answer your question though its easy for a guy to tell a girl what she wants to hear, you might have heard the song "Tell 'em what they wanna hear" which is very true. Not all guys are exactly gems and you should start to expect the majority of guys to lie to you some time or another unless you find a nice guy. A guy will tell you exactly what you want to hear (ex. I love you everything is ok) and then find another girl. What does he care he doesn't have to deal with you anymore. Guys think alot differently then girls. Sorry to hear the bad news, there are better guys out there for you.
2006-08-17 05:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He mite felt as though u didnt have enough air in the atmosphere but that is not an excuse to have a friend call u to tell u. He owe u an explanation cuz that was juz not necessary.
2006-08-17 14:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your profile said you're only 13, how old was he? maybe he was looking for someone his own age? dint worry he's just a JERK and probably only wants to get laid. that what most men want anyways. if havent lost your virginity already i suggest saving it for someone that your in a long term relation ship with. ive been dating my bf for almost 2 yeas and we still havent had sex! thats how i know he truly loves me. dont worry though, you're still young and the right guy will come your way someday =) just make the right choices in life for now. my mom wouldnt let me start dating till i was out of highschool! yikes. at least your lucky and get to start somewhat early, just be safe and forget about him since he's a big loser.. theres someone out there waiting for you who will love you for who you are, just dont try too hard to find thim though =) good luck sweetie! be strong, your better than he is! =p
2006-08-17 13:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for what I see, he is very inmature, guys at your age, will go out with someone tell them they love them, but that doesn't mean that their door is closed to other girls, why do you want to spent the rest of your teenage years with only one girl, when there are so many out there.(that is how they think)
guys don't mature until they are like 25, even though it hurts, try to be very strong!!, focus on other things you coudln't do when you where with him, learn more about yourself.
and don't take it hard on you, sometimes the prettiest and smarter girl can get dumped, if she is with the wrong guy.
2006-08-17 13:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he treated you that way then he is not worth crying over. break up with him and find a guy that will love you and not ditch you for someone else. rememver that there will be other guys to come, and some of them may not be the best. but one day you find the right person.
2006-08-17 13:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical teenage relationship. However, yours lasted a tad bit longer than the average one.
2006-08-17 13:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, put yourself out of this misery, break up with him and find someone who deserves to be with you.
2006-08-17 12:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably didnt feel any good connection with you OH YEAH IM A GIRL. i had this same problem
2006-08-17 14:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by Devyn Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say this but some not all guys are JERKS
2006-08-17 12:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by luvs green day and mcr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like one of my friends said, boys are stupid
2006-08-17 12:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by soulcaliberdrummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋