Im in love with a guy and im not sure if he loves me back...
I been with him for almost 4 years and im still not really sure if he loves me back. When we are together we have a good time. Im always there for him, he lost his job im helped him out with some of his billsand buy him clothes. I do so much but i dont know what he feels for me cause latley we have been having some issues. Like he has been sick and i was trying to talk to him but he dont want to talk to me. He mistakes my kindness for being noisy. Whats up with that?? Im just tired and i feel like dropping him, but thats so hard being in love with him for so many years. HELP!!!!!
2006-08-17 05:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by sexygt29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girlfriend, if you are doing so much for him ask yourself what is he doing for you? Now, he is being ugly towards you and thinks that you are being noisy maybe thats his way of trying to tell you that he needs a break and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings but he is doing it in a way that is being hurtful. You just need to ask him if he wants something more serious or if he just wants a friendship with frindge benefits. You deserve to be happy and even though it hurts to let go of someone that you love so deep maybe thats what the best thing for you to do. You have to be happy for you. God Bless you and I pray all works out but from you message he doesn't want anything serious with you but he isn't turning down clothes and money. Don't get played or used by him.
2006-08-17 05:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say "Tell him how you feel" but...of course, that'll be hard. So simply ASK HIM HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU. It IS possible (but unusual) to be with someone for a long time. If he continues to act distant towards you, you shouldn't waste your time with someone (especially if he's accusing you of being nosey-you're only showing him how much u care afterall)
I hope it all works out for you!! Good luck
2006-08-17 05:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by CaramelQTPie009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After four years if you don't know his feelings for you it is time to move on with your life with someone else or alone.
2006-08-17 05:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it and see what he says. good luck, hon!
2006-08-17 05:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel
2006-08-17 05:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋