my class reunion is coming up and i would like to go, BUT, when i looked at the register of the people who are going none of my friends are going to be there its just the people who i never hung out with. so if i were to go i wouldn't really know anyone. what should i do.
2006-08-17 05:18:58 · 41 answers · asked by Mikey 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
if you feel like that then you should stay home
2006-08-17 05:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My 20 year high school class reunion is actually this weekend in Oregon. I live in NC. I went to a small school but was friends more with either older or younger people and didn't really know many of my classmates. It might of been fun to go but I'm choosing not to. One, because I really didn't know them then and it's 20 years later. Two, airfare is not cheap. Three, I'd rather take a trip somewhere else with my husband for our anniversary. I'm still taking part a bit, I plan on filling out the page for the "where we are now" book and am sending a current photo. I won't be there for the new class photo but will buy one along with the book. If you choose to go, there will be others who aren't sure about the group and you never know, you might re-connect with some people that you forgot about or find things in common with someone new. Good luck and happy reunion!
2006-08-17 05:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by ore2nc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bother, if it's all folks you didn't hang with what's the point. I would try and look up the ones you did hang around with on the internet. There are all kinds of ways to find people, from 411 to the companies that charge for searches. Find your friends and have a phone reunion of your own by getting in touch with old pals. You can talk about how lame people go to highschool reunions to see who's fat and poor!
2006-08-17 05:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go! it's always nice to catch up with people you haven' seen in a while. what would the point of a class reunion if you only hung out with the people you see all the time? you might become better friends with some people than you were when you were in school.
2006-08-17 05:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by adriana24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change, things change. You might realize you have many common interests with people you didn't know in high school or expcet to have a friendship with. Maybe if your so called "friends" were attending, you wouldn't socialize with them anyway. Give it a try, perhaps you will have the time of your life.
Is it a high school reunion? What year reunion?
2006-08-17 05:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by nflhandicapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure there will be others attending feeling the same way. Adult relationships are very different to when we were younger. There are bound to be people who have not seen others for years either, so that would probably put you on the same footing as everyone else. Go there in confidence, make people feel welcome and I am sure that you will make new friends from people you knew of many years ago, which you could share all the memories.
2006-08-17 05:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when I say that there are gonna be people there that also are not friends with anybody there. If you want to be a sport, go show your face and let everybody say wow! That's what happened to so and so! He's a regular guy like us, or he's a this, or a that. Give people a thrill. And get some thrills yourself while you're there. Have a good time with life man. It don't last forever, and when it's over... we'll all see you in hell. haha, jk.
2006-08-17 05:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go. Reunions are to talk over the good old times and re-establish old ties. If no one you hung out with is not going, why bother?
2006-08-17 05:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go even if you didn't hang out with those people before because people change. Go to the reunion and have a look. Best of luck!
2006-08-17 05:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually people change with time.
I went to my highschool reunion once and I ended up hanging out with people I never hang out with during highschool just because we're taking a same major in college.
I would just go and see if there's anyone you could connect with. Just because those people weren't your friends then, doesn't mean they can't be your friends now....
2006-08-17 05:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by meetha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I just went through this last year! I ended up not going, because at $75/person, I thought it was just way too expensive to go have dinner with a bunch of people I barely knew and hadn't seen in a zillion years. But, after it was over, I was sorry that I didn't "spend the buck" and go. It's fun to catch up with people and hear what's been going on in their lives. I say "go".
2006-08-17 05:25:01 · answer #11 · answered by SuzeY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋