look i have two guy that i love and care about but one of then is my ex boyfriend that is tryin to get back with me and the other one is my boyfriend and im sorry im cheating on him but i love my ex more than him
what i do?
2006-08-17 05:07:18 · 26 answers · asked by satchely0999 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well for starters, you shouldn't be cheating. One day this may happen to you and then you'll know how it feels to be on the receiving end of being cheated on.
Second, he's your ex for a reason, i doubt his personality or whatever caused the breakup has changed.
I think you should break up with your current boyfriend and leave him be. He deserves better than to be with someone like you who is cheating and lying to him.
Go back with your ex if he's the one you want to be with. But when it doesn't last and you split up again (more than likely for the same reason as before) you have only yourself to blame.
And you can also sit and think about the guy you cheated on and lied to that didn't do anything wrong, but you dumped for the ex that you are no longer with.
One peice of advice -- if a relationship failed the first time, it 9 times out of 10 will never work if you try a second time. It's best to leave past relationships in the past where they belong and move on to healthier relationships.
If you choose to resurrect a past relationship and ditch a good one you're already in, then you deserve anything you get that comes from it.
2006-08-17 05:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Val 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well for one the ex wouldn't be your ex anymore. ok and second of the "ex" is trying to get back with you and you love him more than your boyfriend now then break up with him and go back out with the other one ok? and why do you have to cheat on someone? its not right! does your ex boyfriend know that hes the other guy? because if he does maybe he won't trust you.
2006-08-17 05:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by ~ goth ~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you love about each one, and what you don't like about each one.. and pick the one that you're going to make a relationship work with...............is what I would have said had you not told us you were cheating with your ex...
You had a nice guy, and you cheated on him with someone who was obviously not the right one. You deserve him. Go to the ex.
2006-08-17 05:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with ever you feel most about. like your ex. if you love him then go for it. NEVER CHEAT....its not good. and tell your boyfriend that you just dont love him like you love your ex. and make sure u tell him sorry. do what you think is right for you.
2006-08-17 05:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by ImDaBoss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, break up with your current boyfriend. but do not do out with your ex immediatly. if you do than your boyfriend will realize you dumped him for some other guy. and thats not cool. so wait like a week adn a half then go out with the other guy.
Good Luck =)
2006-08-17 06:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your current boyfriend and go out with ur ex.
2006-08-17 05:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definetly leave your current boyfriend....i mean you are cheating on him with your ex so clearly you would rather be with him.....just a little advice next time instead of cheating on the one you are with leave him before it happens. if you want to or are cheating on someone then whats the point in staying with them?
2006-08-17 05:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by beautiful 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you can answer this one for yourself but if not then you might as well get rid of the new one and go to the x,,but remember this what comes around goes around nad he willbe an x again and you will probably cheat again,which is a sad thing to cheat on anyone
2006-08-17 05:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by Robin P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the current boy and go back out wit the ex
2006-08-17 06:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Eliza Dolittle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be with the one you really love the most and you need to tell the other one the problem ok good luck
2006-08-17 05:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋