when u were 13 and all ur freinds had gf/bf did u ever feel like u would never have one?

Answer 1

I've felt the same way because all my friends would have bf/gf and I had nothing. Only the wierdest or not so good looking guys liked me which kinda sucked. But know that it won't always be like that, life is forever changing and things can happen to you when you least expect it. But, don't stress over it, have fun and live life to the fullest, enjoy your youth!! Very chiche' but very true. Oh, by the now I'm married to hot construction worker with a beautiful son and my friends are still single!! Life is always changing.

Answer 2

I know exactly what you mean. I had the same problem. Im 21 now and have had a long dating stretch and am now married and have a daughter, and sometimes I wish I could go back to not having to worry about guys. But it is lonely, I know. But it wont last. Here in a couple of years you will realize all you have to offer, and so will they. Its not that you arent pretty enough, and its not that you're not good enough. You probably just think these things and it shows. Become happy with who you are, and they will come. Just dont do anytthing you're uncomfortable with, because it worked for your friends. I did that and it was a big mistake.

Answer 3

I know exactly what you mean, when i was 13 , i remember going to school dances and watch all my friends slow dance with their boyfriends, and there i was sitting on the wall just waiting for some one to come along. i realized sitting and waiting isn't going to get you anywhere. It's not the 90's anymore it OK to go after some thing that you want. Go ahead and go after what you want , the least that can happen is the person turning you down, and that's not a problem cuz there's lots of other fish in the sea.

Answer 4

Yeah i used to think i was the ugly duckling in my group of girls i hung around with. but now i am 25 i was in a relationship for 3 years with one guy, was on my own for 2 years having some fun and doing what i wanted to do and now i have found an even better guy than the one before and we have a lot of fun together going to gigs and holidays while my friends are at home with their children

Answer 5

I had my first bf at 13 and it sucked. What the hell do we know about having a bf at 13. When you make 16 and you don't have a bf then be worried. Boys suck anyway. They just try to get in your pants.

Answer 6

Nope... I realized soon, that I was very smart. So I focused on my school work, got great grades, got into college early and by the time I was 21 (due to my self confidence and brains) I was an amazing catch and the boys were chasing me!! But my friends who had boyfriends, and didnt focus on studies, were pregnant or divorced, or had gained 100 lbs and didnt care to keep themselves up. So moral of my story, Focus on yourself, Boys will come later. Good luck!

Answer 7

Yep, I sure did! And lived with that feeling until I was 17. I was always too tall and once the boys finally hit puberty and grew, that is when they finally noticed that I exsisted.

Now my daghter is 13 and she is feeling the same way, luckily she is of normal height and thus I feel pretty stupid for blaming it on my height! I was just too ugly...lol

Answer 8

You're too young! Enjoy your freedom! You have the rest of your life to be tied down! Right now, worry about homework, that's what will get you somewhere in life...

Answer 9

Actually, I did. I always felt like every other girl was more attractive than I was and that all the boys liked them and not me. But not anymore.

Answer 10

nope, cause I was one who always had a boyfriend. Until this one really hot guy scared me off boys for a couple of years, then it was my choice to stay away from them!