Ok, I have this friend that just gets mad at me if I'm having a bad day and I don't want to talk about it. It hurts because I feel like she doesn't respect my space and is always trying to weasel her way in. What should I do? Oh, and also what do u do if ur boyfriend is cheating but he doesn't know that you know he is? HELP!!!! PLEASE!!!!
2006-08-17 04:35:28 · 8 answers · asked by sweetthang93 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First. Not everyone wants to talk about why they are mad when they are sometimes they need a little space to deal with it first. You should try telling your friend how you feel and exlpain why so she understands it's not because your shutting her out that's just how you deal with things. If she doesn't understand then maybe she's not really your true friend,
Second. If you know he's cheating on you why in the world would you stay with him? To me that makes no sense whatsoever. He obviously doesn't care enough not to cheat on you and I could be wrong but you make it sound like it wasn't just once but is ongoing. Ever think you found out because somewhere inside of him he actually wants to get caught. I mean it doesn't sound like he cares enough not to cheat on you and be faithful so why would he want to be with you? I say break up with the dog!
2006-08-17 04:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first you need to tell your friend that you will talk to her about it once youve dealt with the situtation. I have a feeling she isnt trying to weasel in anywhere but she is just worried about you. If I was trying to help a friend and they kept shutting me out Id get mad too.
If you know your bf is cheating on you why the hell are you still with him??? DING DING its not rocket science dump the bozo and MOVE ON. He is so not worth your time, your energy, or letting your spirit die for. Hell, get yourself a dog. Much easier to deal with.
2006-08-17 11:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend is hurt that you are closing yourself off to her. Maybe she is concerned about you and wants to try to help but you just shut her out.
And dump the boyfriend. You are obviously not the one he wants to be with.
2006-08-17 11:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Terra T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to your friend that soemtimes you are just having a bad day and need your space. if she doesn't understand she is not a real friend. About your bf, ditch him. Do you really want to be with someone thats's not faithful?
2006-08-17 11:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the friend, dump the boyfriend. Only have people that treat you well as part of your life.
2006-08-17 11:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend frankly that everybody have their moods and she should try to respect your space.if your boyfriend is cheating on you and you know about this,do you still need advice?LEAVE HIM.but do clear the reason with him.try to catch him redhanded
2006-08-17 11:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by jaishree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want these issues to stay you can try everthing else.
if you want them to go you need to confront both your friend and bf. explain the need of a (your) personal bubble to your friend. tell your bf that you know only if you're 100% sure.
those who mind don't matter,and those who matter don't mind
2006-08-17 11:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by blow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just concerned about you.
DUMP THE BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!
2006-08-17 11:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋