It's the question every guy would love answered. Is there a surefire way to get ANY girl you want to fall for you within a short period of time??? Yes, I know it's unlikely!
2006-08-17 04:25:01 · 12 answers · asked by Super N 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
OK, I'm getting lots of "wait for the right girl" type answers, or the odd "you'll never get one looser". The thing is, I am actually already quite good at picking up girls, even though I'm about average looking. I put it down to a number of techniques and skills I've developed, along with the confidence to just ask!!! (Seems like the most obvious and important thing, but usually the one guys lack most). While it works a lot of the time, it often takes a while to "work" them and can get boring, and also is less effective on the most attractive girls. So, I am looking for shared skills etc. from other people on this board. Can be from guys telling what they do that works, or girls sharing what works for them. Anything goes (within the law!). I filed this under psychology because I think it is kind of a study in peoples psyche. All is fair in love and war :-)
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Thanks,
2006-08-17 04:50:00 · update #1
I am female.
One hint...
"Short period of time': big mistake. BIG one.
2006-08-19 19:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not about to happen!! Money -- yes, will attract a lot of shallow girls/women, but . . . what real man would want them, after a while? Most women of depth and character I know would rather have someone with decency and honor (and *some* money -- lol), than a walking wallet with no morals. As to being on a pedestal -- the only thing that happened to my poor younger brother when he tried to put women up there (and he really was honest about it -- that's where he thinks they belong), was that every single one of them walked off it, all over him (STOMP STOMP!!). So, I'd shoot for being honest, straightforward, well-educated -- and keep telling her she's beautiful. THAT one, at least, seems to work!
2006-08-17 04:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Yahzmin ♥♥ 4ever 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is most unlikely these days my friend, believe me. We all are living in a real world and believe (or at least seem to) in the equality of sexes. Then what makes you ask this question, unless you are a super-human being or something. Sorry, no pun intended here please, this is my forceful answer to your interesting question that has opened up new the thinking process deep within me. Please also consider the other side --why would any girl fall for you ? For what? The World is there for her to choose from, is'nt it? Good Luck !!
2006-08-17 04:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by easyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, I don't know. All women are different so theres really no sure fire way. However, if you treat them right, with respect and you put them up on a pedestal without being fake or anything then it definately helps. Women like to feel like they are needed and important in your life. Also, spend time with her and do some of the things that she enjoys as well as things you enjoy.
2006-08-17 04:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by mommy_2_little_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right, it's not likely. instead of any girl how about u wait for the right girl then work on her........i cant believe most of u GUYS think that women are so shallow that a mans only chance to get a nice girl is money and fame! My husband has neither but i would follow him to the ends of the earth and back again. QUIT STERYOTYPING!!!! not one woman anwsered with the steryotype that all men r pigs!
2006-08-17 04:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by booti92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine pots and pots of 'dinero", some amount of good looks, a little sense of humor and being a gentleman while in the presence of the women would become a major issue between the women as to who should get u!!!!
2006-08-17 04:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by livingonthinice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sure, you can go after all the weak and vulnerable girls in the world if you want to, and I'm sure that you will find a lot of good looking ones in that category. If thats your thing that is.
2006-08-17 05:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by Catt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not really ugly, Have a great job, (Movie Star) or such, Have LOTS of MONEY, let me say that again, HAVE LOTS OF MONEY, GREAT CAR, Shiney Bling, and a Castle for a Home, You stand a good chance.
2006-08-17 04:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work hard and get a large amount of fame and wealth. It will not guaranty you any girl you want, but it will open the door to a large quantity of them.
2006-08-17 04:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
KEEP DREAMING SO THAT AT LEAST IN DREAMS YOU WILL FIND ONE! GIRLS ARE NOT LIKE A PIECE OF CAKE YOU BUY FROM A BAKERY - THEY ARE INDIVIDUALS WITH EMOTIONS AND YOU NEED TO STRIVE FOR STARTING AND DEVELOPING A LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIP!
2006-08-17 04:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sami V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋