My fiancé gets lets things upset her easily. Such things include stress and minor problems with friends. This doesn’t bother me but I want to help her out. I enjoy doing things to better people’s lives. I feel that if she changes this, she will be much happier and better off. What are some ways I can successfully do this? Thanks for your help.
2006-08-17 04:24:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm in the exact position as your fiance. Trust me when I tell you this, give her some time to vent and complain, she'll feel better (but you gotta really listen to her and comfort her!)! After giving her the space to do that keep on being supportive and caring. Show/tell her you'll always be there for her. Give her great advice on how to deal with her problems. Take her out and have fun to get her mind off those things that stress her out. That's what my Boyfriend did with me, it really helped :)
2006-08-17 04:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Yaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always reassure her. Whatever the problem may be, ask her if she'd like to talk about it or whether she'd prefer her own space. She can come to you whenever shes ready to talk. Support her when she needs it and reassure her that things may not be as bad as they seem and she shouldnt take it to heart if its not necessarily aimed at her. As for dealing with stress, find something that can take her mind off it, maybe a hobby that you can do together?
2006-08-17 04:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tracey R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs to relax more. Take up walking every day with her and focus on more positive things. I don't deal well with stress so normally plan an outing a least one day a week. Others try medication....
2006-08-17 04:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by b's wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep reminding her not to let it bother her. I do the same thing. I get upset about my male co workers all the time... They joke with eachother on a daily basis and then tease me and I use to let it bother me, But My husband THE WONDERFUL MAN THAT HE IS told me that by them teasing me so much, they are just treating me like one of the guys... thats how guys are he said. So now i dont let it get to me... I use to cry about it. But its just boys bein boys...
2006-08-17 04:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to be writing my tale. I even have been with my fiance for 4 years and in that component he made 3 feeble suicide tries. Being drastically older than him, i became into no longer determining to purchase into his self pity nor became into I going to be held hostage with the aid of his emotional demands. each and every time they threw him in the psychological ward for 3 days and enable him out. He on no account rather became into going to kill himself (one time he even pronounced as the ambulance himself after taking pills). many times he did this jointly as he became into ingesting. His kin continuously ran to the psychological ward and babied him yet I did purely he opposite. I advised him that he became into performing immature and utilising self pity and manipulation to hold me hostage. i do no longer propose this notwithstanding when you consider which you're undecided of his attitude. If I have been you, the subsequent time he threatends suicide, call the police and that they'll (reckoning on what state he lives in....maximum states) carry him to a well-being facility for a pair days. this would do certainly one of two issues: it relatively is going to the two get him help or it's going to make him come to a call to strengthen up and cut back the drama as a results of fact the consequence would be 3 days in locked facility. (specific touch his kin too)
2016-10-02 04:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice ever: Don't try to save them from anything. Girls don't want the guys to jump in and solve the problem for them. They just want someone to listen to them, and be there for them. Let her deal with her demons. Stay out of it.!
2006-08-17 04:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Phaedrus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The female persuasion can be highly emotional however, most women are not looking for solutions but for a shoulder to cry on. You should tell her what you told answers and see what she says.
2006-08-17 04:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by pamspraises 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she thinks if getting upset will help the situation any . it usually just makes things worse . tell her the next time she wants to ,to sit and think about she feels she needs to do without the stress . tell her she is only hurting herself do you think that the others care if shes upset or not .people nowadays just think of themselves .
2006-08-17 04:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Chana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋