I have this friend who's really talkative and girly, and when I'm with her I'm more like that. Then I have this other best friend who's really tomboyish and funny, and when I'm with her, I feel like I'm more myself, but still I act more like her. Same around my best friend. It's like I don't have my own opinon on anything, so I just agree with them. Even around my boyfriend, it's like I never know what to say, and I never have my own opinion, and I'm afraid to ever tell him when he's hurting my feelings or anything. I don't even know who I am, I'm so confused, and it makes it really hard for me to talk to anyone, because it's like I don't have a personality, help!
2006-08-17 04:16:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
alright, well I think you should tell both of ur friends that u need some "break time" cuz that's how I used to feel and now I just luv being myself again. Take some time to discover urself and who u really are. I hope this advice gets you far...
2006-08-17 04:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by sweetthang93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should find out who you are 1st like what type of person are you. It seems 2 me that when your with certain people and you act so different in manys ways that you can't halp that. And i think you shouldn't be afraid to be your self no matter who your around. I think that if you speak your mind and don't let people hurt you or talk 2 you any kind of way then i think you will get more respect for you.
2006-08-17 13:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know i used to have the same problem its being a people pleaser and if u feel as if u have to act different may be because they are judgemental friends if u cant be yourself and they still love u find new friends sometimes they can be your best friend when your younger but as you grow up you may change and so may they you may come to find that they are the ones who should change
2006-08-17 11:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by vncnt_brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing for you to do is to take some down time and figure out who you are. Once you do this, just be yourself. When you know who you are, true friends will except you for being who you are Good Luck to you
Be yourself
2006-08-17 11:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by cavy57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You needs to find your own identity and stop being someone who you are not.
2006-08-17 11:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋