I'm just wondering if this is a normal thing or is there something missing.
2006-08-17 04:14:19 · 23 answers · asked by lighthouse lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After 12 years of being with the same guy...hell yeah! Thank God I have an imagination or this same tired routine we've been going through would have me screaming divorce. Since I can close my eyes and imagine that I am with the neighbor down the street, the UPS driver or even Orlando Bloom I am good to go.
2006-08-17 04:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by inquiring mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your relationship status. The difference between sex and love making is simple EMOTIONS. Sex is a temporary physical enjoyment where love making is all about emotions (I can't really explain it's just there and you can feel it). It's almost like a zone where it is just you and your partner and nothing else matters. You feel it emotionally after the physical part is over. Depending on which one you guys do is important. If it is sex then it's sex. It's normal because you desire something that you are not getting. When it is lovemaking you should be fulfilled. If not, you are with the wrong one.
2006-08-17 11:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by jessica b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some time is natural to have a fantasy imaging to be with someone else.But in the 100 percent something is missing.Mean that you do not feel the same love that before;and some time you are thinking in somebody else. Can be a close friend o really somebody else.
2006-08-17 11:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have done that very thing. The person you are thinking about is the person you would wont to have sex with because the person you are having sex with is not doing it right. But the person you are thinking about probably can't do it right either.so don't cheat in a relationship because the sex is bad. just keep thinking about the person you are thinking about and have grate sex with the person you are with. If you love the person you are with stay with him. I f you don't love him leave him and try the person you are thinking about only if he is single.
2006-08-17 11:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by gemini2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obvoiusly the one who says she only has eyes for her husband is lying. its a normal thing and you cant always control your brain. it doesnt mean something is wrong in your relationship at all and can even enhance the relationship mentally and sexually. just dont call out said persons name that you are imagining him to be cuz that might cause problems.
ps.
the lady that says she doesnt lust after anyone but her husband? do you have a pulse? do you not see hot guys on tv and think mmmmmmmm yummy? if not you need your brain checked for major malfunctions.
2006-08-17 11:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes, especially when the girls insists on me coming as many times as she has.
This is appreciated but not necessary.
After knocking it out for 1-1/2 to 2 hours, that muscle gets a little fatigued.
2006-08-17 11:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER NEVER NEVER, that would be horrible!!
How could I ever look at my husband again with an honest heart?
I love him,and he turns me on. I don't LUST over any one else.
Yes you are are missing something if you do that.
You lust over someone else, and that is WRONG.
l love my husband and have eyes only for him!
2006-08-17 11:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by poetsez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it all the time, and it is really good for my sex life when I do it - i'd say its normal
2006-08-17 11:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the time...life is too short to miss out, but then again, that's why we were given great imaginations...
2006-08-17 11:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lot of times when I am banging my wife, I keep seeing her older sister in my mind. Her sister's a doll with a great booty that I would love to loot.
2006-08-17 11:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋