I am happily married, but have recently developed a crush on a friend of mine. I have no intention of acting on this crush, but can't seem to stop thinking about this person :-) How do I get past this and put it out of my mind quickly?
2006-08-17 04:09:57 · 10 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
time, and stop thinking of him when you have sex and when you masturbate
2006-08-17 04:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by corwinnn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!! O.k. this is what you do....
1. Tell your friend you have a crush on him.
2. Then tell your husband you have a crush on an old friend.
3. Then sit both of them down and tell both of them our feeling both of them.
4. Next you file for divorce becuase oviously your husband isn't doing it for you if your thinking about other men.
5. Now that your single you can daydream about any man you want with no more worries. (so enjoy it)
6. And last you die a sad lonely women. Because you where to hard to please. sad but true..........
2006-08-17 11:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already come to terms with yourself because you know that it is just a crush and you don't intend for it to go any farther! It is normal to look and like what you see! Since you have realized that you are aware of this situation and you are not going to let it go any farther, then you should just stop thinking about it!
If you allow yourself to keep harping on it then that means that you do want it to go farther! Be Truthful With Yourself!!!!!!!
Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-21 09:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admitting to him that you have a crush on him and that you are happily married you just need to get that off yo chest.
2006-08-17 11:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about this person. Every time the thought of that person creeps up, fight it away with thoughts of love for your married spouse.
Just ask Jesus to help you. He loves you. And he wants an open relationship with all of us, even over things we think are silly, we should still pray about them if they bother us.
Jesus is like a sponge soaking up all our pains and worries.
Try it.
2006-08-17 11:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by poetsez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him; stop being around him; do more fun things with your husband. Remember all the reasons why you love him. Take your husband out on a date. Do something new iwth yoru husband
2006-08-17 11:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid this person as much as reasonable, work on renewing the romance in your marriage. (if people would work as hard on renewing the romance in their marriage as they do fooling around there would be very few divorces.)
2006-08-17 11:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by sweet smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think how wrong that is and all the damage the you will cause if you act on it and hopefully that will help you too
2006-08-17 11:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about that
2006-08-21 00:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on what you have(your husband)
2006-08-17 13:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋