feel guilty about it or are you still cheating?
2006-08-17 04:04:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have never cheated on my husband. We have only been together about 3 years, but I feel confident that I never ever will cheat. As strange as this may sound, a big reason for this is the fact that before him, I was quite the cheater. I cheated on pretty much everyone I ever dated. (I know, I'm awful, lol) The reason this leads me to believe that I'll never be tempted to stray with him is this: With everyone else I was ever with, I was always shopping for my next boyfriend or girlfriend. Ever since the very first night I met my husband, there wasn't a doubt in my mind that he was "the one" and that I wanted no one else but him for ever and ever. There is no one on the planet that could ever measure up to him. With the other folks I dated, I was always looking for "something better" but I know that now I have the very best. The only way I would ever be with anyone else in any capacity now is maybe a threesome with another girl, and that is only if HE wants to do it. Ain't true love grand?! ;)
2006-08-17 06:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by LadyGeektastic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not married im only 12! and have never had a real boyfriend(guys most likely think im wierd or shy).
i am just wondering WHY DID YOU ASK THAT QUESTION?!?
nobody that has cheated will answer because they will feel guilty and their wife or husband will find out! DUH!
lol
2006-08-17 11:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did. Most inconsiderate and unmanageable mistake I ever made.
Feel guilty? Every second of every day I live in a hell of my own creation - both from the consequences of loosing the most amazing woman I could have imagined, as well as a constant beating on myself emotionally for hurting her the way I did.
2006-08-17 11:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by DW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience there are a lot of aggressive wowen out there. I've had a girl slip her phone number in by back pocket as I was standing holding hands with my g/f. I've had girls take my hand and rub them on their breasts, I've had girls come up and rub their crouch on my knee and ask me to take them home as I sat on a high bar stool, I've had girls maul my *** from behind on the dance floor, girls come up and whisper sexually explicit things in my ear while I'm standing next to my g/f and I have had two younger girls offer me a 3some.
Even though these girls were hot, I've never cheated on my g/f. Because my g/f satisifies me completely emotionally and physically. And I would be so hurt if she cheated on me....I couldn't do it to her knowing how much it would hurt her.
2006-08-17 12:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex cheated 12 times. I would not cheat with anyone new cuz I know how it feels to be cheated on, its a awful feeling.
2006-08-17 11:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by LadyRaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't do that to him cause I know how it feels to be cheated on and its not a good feeling. Actually, i'd only cheat if he beat me or really treated me like crap. But if you are happy in your relationship you shouldn't have to cheat. and if you're not happy then leave. I know, easier said than done but i'd leave if I truly found happiness elsewhere.
2006-08-17 11:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes on my ex-husband, with my new one now.
Would I do it to the new one, heck NO!!!!
2006-08-17 11:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by Illinoismom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i never no, god is watching over me.
2006-08-17 11:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no never
2006-08-17 11:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no never... i am clean
2006-08-17 11:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by messy_missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋