I have been TTC for over three years and last month I had my 1st cycle of Clomid. I became pregnant the first month, but lost the baby two days after I found out I was pregnant. When they took my levels in the ER, my body was already down to levels of 3.10 (no pregnancy hormones at all). I hear try to wait to conceive to let your body heal, but I never went through a time after this that my body didn't feel normal. I believe it is because I lost the baby so early on. I know if your 10 weeks along, your body goes through more and that is why a lot of women are encouraged to wait. But I also hear that you are most fertile after a M/C. Would you try to Conceive this month knowing your chances are higher of conceiving? Thanks
2006-08-17 04:01:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Only you can decide this....my first thought was NO! Because conceiving a baby too soon after a miscarriage before your levels are down have been linked to serious post partum depression (one of my best friends had it and so did Brooke Shields who conceived soon after a miscarriage).
BUT....your level was already down to 3, that isn't even clinically pregnant...AND you've been trying so long and your odds are up this month......
I'd do it. I'm not basing this on anything medical, but having been there (It took a surgery, 2 years and infertility doctors to get our second child), I understand your urgency. So yeah, I would.
NEVER GIVE UP! I got pregnant a week before my surgery with the infertility doctor was scheduled after 2 years.
2006-08-17 04:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by jm1970 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question raises several issues. You want to make sure your HcG levels are back down to zero before trying to conceive again. If they are back down to zero, you need to decide whether you are ready mentally. I had two pregnancy losses: a stillborn at 26 weeks and then a miscarriage. After both losses, I tried again the following month to get pregnant because I was mentally ready and my OB advised that I was physically ready as well. I will tell you that I DID conceive four cycles after the stillborn and I DID conceive on the first cycle after my D&C (with twins!) I now have three healthy children (knock on wood).
If you need support about your pregnancy after a loss or while trying to conceive after a loss, one site I found extremely helpful is www.nationalshareoffice.com - a lot of support there from women just like you.
2006-08-17 04:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Hilary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are easier to get pregnant then different humans are! There was a announcing that some women obtained pregnant whenever their husband hung their shirt on their 4 poster mattress.-(one of the crucial submit). What you might be speakme about have got to be an traditional of all couples!Some humans get pregnant the first month they try! Oftentimes you do not even have got to are trying. For some it's going to take years! If a couple desires children and the woman doesn't get pregnant right away then they'll think they are not able to get pregnant-until the completely happy shock!
2016-08-09 11:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-21 00:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by marentes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had 3 miscarriages and each time my dr has requested I wait for 3 months to let my body repair itself anf get back normal. However you are more fertile after a miscarriage. If you do try, just remember it could happen again if it is too soon.
Each miscarry I was everywhere from 5-6 weeks to 3 months.
Good luck!
2006-08-17 04:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Emily J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just had a miscarriage and my OB said that I could start trying as soon as I wanted to. We had sex that night and have every 4 or 5 days ever since. We'll know in a week or so if I'm pregnant again!~
2006-08-17 06:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by momoftwo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's a personal choice, but I would choose to try again if it was a very early m/c, I too have read that your fertility increases in the cycle following a m/c
best of luck to you!
2006-08-17 04:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready...do it again...I was told to wait at least one cycle before trying again.
2006-08-17 04:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have lost two babies at different times and still was told to wait. your notr fully healed
2006-08-17 04:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consult with you doctor first. But if u feel that is okay then go for it
2006-08-17 04:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by helpif i can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋