He has 5 kids that is knew. Other women have been pregnant for him and either lost the baby or probably haven't even come forward. He has been married twice in our 10 year relationship or whatever you want to call it. And guess what, he is in the process of getting a divorce from his second wife. I can go all day but also add to the list that he has been with about 150 women. I have been out a couple of times because of the way that he does me but damn. My biggest mistake and I tell all women, don't tell a man everything.
2006-08-17 03:37:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As a man, I can tell you that your baby's father has grown accustomed to his playa' GAMES.
What you have with him NOW... is never going to prosper anything further than what it is.
But what you can do is stop seeing yourself as he sees you (from his point of view) and look at yourself from another perspective. Look at all what these positive women have advised to you... build up your self-esteem and focus your energy toward your baby, yourself and your future.
Until any man can really love, respect and appreciate you the way you feel you should be... you're first gonna have to love, respect, and appreciate yourself at that level. How is anyone going to give you that, if you can't treat yourself in that fashion?
The 'playa' only gave you what you would receive... but now, if you don't want any junk; don't accept any junk! If you don't want any games; don't accept any games! If you don't want any hoeish, unbelievable baby fathers...
2006-08-17 04:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, I suggest you start taking the energy of loving this man into loving yourself more to demand better treatment as a woman.
I get dismayed when I hear woman loving a man who doesn't do loving things but is loved anyway. How can you love a cheater and man who lack responsibility by making all these kids and not to mention sexually transmitted disease.
I think once you build up your self esteem, you will begin to discover your mind, body , and soul deserve better that its your God given right to enjoy your life free of unnecessary stress some things you can't avoid dealing with in this life but we do have control over our personal life and I suggest get in control over yours and leave in peace and happiness in your personal life by finding someone who truly love and respects you as a person and treat you accordingly.
2006-08-17 11:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your SN is 'allabout me' if it were all about you, you'd care more about yourself and your baby than to be with a trifliing SOB like him.
He can't give you anything...I'm guessing he can't help out financially, or emotionally. Keep it on the outs, don't invite him into your bed again. There are so many decent men out there.
It isn't about telling a man everything...it's about repsecting yourself. Make yourself a role model as your baby grows up. You BOTH deserve better!
2006-08-17 10:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to raise your self out of the ghetto in your mind, spirit, and space.
Really - I have a baby father that is just hoeish ...
There is nothing fabulous about the ghetto. There is no pride in the ghetto.
Raise yourself up.
2006-08-17 10:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is exactly right. Don't tell a man everything as they do not tell the women everything. Lose him. He's no good. Open your eyes girl. You deserve better.
2006-08-17 11:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something seriously wrong here
2006-08-17 10:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why? You're an idiot
2006-08-17 10:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋