Well I have this friend who think she is better than everybody she hangs out with!!! I mean she act one way in front of me but when she get in front of somebody else she that when she act rude, mean, snobish and down right evil!!! I mean I still want her as a friend but I am get really tried of it!!! My feeling get hurt everytime!!!! I cant take any more!!! Should quit being her friend or she I say something to her(but I do that everytime and she only change that day I tell her about herself than the next she act the same!!!!) What should I do?????????
2006-08-17 03:31:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's trouble. a friend of mine has a friend like yours too, actually... Well, you can always give her some advice, try to be gentle with ones such as those.
besides, there is no point of forcing your feelings. You hate her but still wanna be friends. I can tell that you're a kind person, but that is called forcing your feelings.
One suggestion that comes to my mind is try to be angry with her, and complain to her about all of her doings. Things will go bad for awhile but I'm quite sure you'll make up with her again when she finally understands.
Sorry if that didn't work, too... That's the only thing in my mind, hope that works, though...
2006-08-17 03:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion she's not a friend. Friends don't act a certain way around one person, then another way around you, then another way around someone else.
A friend also should not be hurting your feelings all the time.
Friends are suppose to be people you can trust. People who will encourage you, and love you, and have fun with you when you're hanging out. Friends are people who have your back, no matter what- kinda like a brother and sister who aren't really your brother or sister.
Sometimes in life friendships end because you out grow each other, but that just doesn't appear to be the case here. It doesn't seem (from what you've said) that's she's ever really been a friend to you or the people she hangs out with.
You said it yourself, you can't take anymore. So why try and force yourself to take more?
I'm sure there are others that you can become friends with, who in turn will be good friends to you as well.
Blessings To You & Yours
2006-08-17 03:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Pastors Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person wants to sound like my cousin. Just tell her again and if she still acts the same then dump her, cause people will judge you on who you hang out with. If you hang out with her, people will think you are the same as her. I know you shouldnt care what people think about you, but sometimes, you have to do what is best for you and your reputation.
2006-08-17 03:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had friend that are the same way, if telling her how you feel isn't working then perhaps it is time to move on and find friends that wont 2 face you behind your back. i know you still want to be her friend but you should think about yourself and your feelings. you'll know what you need to do. just to let you know i no longer talk to the people that were like that.
2006-08-17 03:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by shellie11985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're proper it truly is hard to discover astounding associates. yet human beings replace because the boost older. it truly is a actuality of existence you ought to manage. both you'll merely see previous it and nevertheless be associates such as her, or you gained't and finally you'll bypass your separate options. She gained't also be conscious that she's replaced all that a lot, or it would want to be that Liza and Kate will grow to be closer and also you and Liza will nevertheless be associates yet no longer as close. It occurs and it sucks. yet that's how issues bypass some cases.
2016-11-25 22:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a friend whose company you will continue to enjoy if things stay as they are.
If the friendship is important to you then you need to explain to your friend how this way of acting hurts you, and what results you need to remain friends.
If this doesn't help the situation then you really need to dump this friend.
2006-08-17 03:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hang around ppl like that who ever she is your friend is just no good at all. You should so not be friends with her anymore if she's going to act like that then just leave her alone and move on.
2006-08-17 09:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her wat u see happening and if she understands and says that she'll try to change then u know she's a keeper. but if she says she will but doesn't then think hard if u really want to be friends with a girl who does these things and won't listen to u. and if she denys it all kick her to the curve, and find new friends
2006-08-17 03:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is way to much work tell her the truth and then you should think about letting her go you would probably be happier but if you cant live without her you are just stuck and need help..
2006-08-17 03:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by endofthetailbunnies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say talk to her about it, explain to her how you don't like how she's acting, and its hurting your feelings. and if that doesn't work. find other friends, no "friend" is really worth this trouble.
hope i helped.
2006-08-17 03:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋