Im 20 years old... is it wierd that I find women in their 30s and 40s extremely attractive?

Question

Its not that I do not like the women my age... I do but women in their 30s and 40s just catch my eye more. And its not that I want a MILF or anything stupid like that, I just think they are very attractive and sexy. Also, if I was to go up to one of these women and tell them I think they are attractive would that freak them out or boost their confidense that a younger man is checking them out? Let me know what you think.

Answer 1

I take all that as a compliment. I'll start looking at younger guys a new way now. I do notice that though. I am 36 and I look pretty decent. I find that guys in the mid 20's flirt with me all the time. Never thought about it that way though. :)

Answer 2

Not at all. When I was 28, I dated a woman that was 40. At 30, I dated a woman that was 36. Now, I'm 36 and married to a woman 5 years younger than me.

Answer 3

I was in my 30's and I had a four year relationship with a 23 year old. He now is older and likes younger women. It is normal for young guys to like older women, but it doesn't last.

Answer 4

weird? u make me feel like i'm extremely old. it's normal to feel that way though. younger men are always attracted to older women cuz older women are usually more stable, better off financially, have more experience, more confident, etc. for me, i would feel like i'm robbing the cradle if i date someone born in different decades after me. but just like all women, if you go up to them, they will get offended or accept your compliment all depending on how you approach her. some older women may accept a date with a younger man or not depending on her preferences. you never know. but if you're worried about rejection, that applies to all women. women in their 20s may just as well reject a date as an older woman would.

Answer 5

Maybe you find them attractive because they are more mature than the women your age. Maturity and confidence can be very attractive. It would be flattering to an older woman to know that a younger man finds her attractive, however - be very careful and tactful about what you say and how you say it.

Answer 6

not only are they extremely attractive, but older women are filled with the experience of living and make great life long partners in anything you wish to achieve.

Plus since women live longer than men, they will be available as long as the man is able desire a sexual partner

Answer 7

OMG... NO its not wierd. Older women are very sexy. They know their bodies better, know their curves better, and have more confidence than women in their teens and 20s. Im 26 and cant wait to age. Every day I feel more confident with myself and am loving myself more. They exube a confidence that comes naturally with age. Its probably that which draws you to them. It does me too. Look at Sarah Jessica Parker. She glows! Hope this helps

Answer 8

It's not weird at all. Most of the movie stars are around that age and they're quite hottttt!!!!! Women that I've ran into usually try to look better around that age and that's when they "peak". Go for it...you have nothing to lose and a lot to gain from it.

Answer 9

I think it's great. Some women just know they got it going on so it don't take a 20 year old to tell them anything.

Answer 10

It's perfectly normal. Younger men tend to go for older women due to experience and prime. Women don't sexually peak until late twenties early thirties, where as, men generally peak in their late teens and twenties. It's natural to seek out women that can match your needs in bed. It's also why it's very common to see older women out with younger men ;)