those girls...I AM NOT A SLUT, and my bf enjoys it and so do all of his friends and other men....
2006-08-17 03:12:19 · 21 answers · asked by beth s 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
You've answered your own question.
How do you know that all of his friends and other men like it when you dress sexy? And in what way do they like it?
You probably know they like it because they look at your body more than before. The more you show, the more they are going to look. It doesn't mean they respect you; quite the contrary. Why not walk around topless? How is what you are doing different from that? You would get even MORE people to look at you that way. Seriously, if your goal is to get men to look at your body, then why not? "Because THAT would be slutty," right? In a way, that is what you are fringing on already if you are dressing purposfully to show off your body.
Which, it seems, it what you are doing. You know men are looking, so you do it all the more. Your purpose for dressing is one purpose: to get men to look at your body. You're not out to enhance your looks, tweak your sex appeal, or just avoid unflattering clothes. You are dressing to get men to look at you. That is the definition of dressing slutty.
Your BF may say he likes the way you dress, and he probably does on some level. But deep down you know he doesn't respect you for it. How can anyone respect a person who doesn't respect their own body? How could you really be serious about someone who is constantly attracting the eyes of other men on purpose?
2006-08-17 03:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by bwjordan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dressing in that manner shows you are comfortable with your sexuality. From what I have seen women that judge others as sl_ts do so , in my opinion, because they are jealous that they cannot do the same thing. Some women cannot dress like that because of physical limitations, upbringing causing moral limitations, or they have a jealous spouse. Any of these problems are their problems and not the person that is able to dress in that manner.
2006-08-17 10:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From an evolutionary point of view by dressing this way you are drawing attention to your form and sexuality. This attracts the males of the packs and causes the females to view you negatively. This all occurs at the subconscience level.
2006-08-17 10:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care about trying to impress ur bfs friends and other men? Uhhh... yeah, that sounds like a slut.
2006-08-17 10:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by lay_t_bugg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls usually call other girls sluts because they get jealous of the attention the first girl is getting from guys, even though she doesn't dress like that. guys go for easy girls and girls who wear sexy clothes come off as easy.
2006-08-17 10:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jaycie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think ur a slut. I don't know you so i can't judge you. But you shouldn't dress like that or smoke for some guys attention or because they like it. You should do it because it gives you confidence or because you like it :)
2006-08-17 10:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by aries:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take every girl as i find them, you can find some very nice girls that look like that or you can find some total slappers,its the same in any style.
2006-08-17 12:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Petrol Head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's either because they're jealous or, too simple minded to understand that a woman can be confident (Or in some cases, insecure.) enough to wear those things.
2006-08-17 10:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls find things wrong in other women to feed their own egos! somehow makes them feel better about themselves! i've never understood this in people, and don't believe i ever will. if you're happy with who you are, then enjoy! and, don't worry about what others say or think!!!
2006-08-17 10:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and YOUR friends, not the boyfriend's, enjoy your appearance, do as you like. Jealousy is a greeneyed monster and it's looking at you.
2006-08-17 10:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by expatturk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋