Say that you are a girl. Your attracted to boys but you find yourself judging other girls. Like if they are cute or not and things like that. Is this gay?
2006-08-17 03:11:28 · 19 answers · asked by K G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No it is not. It is a normal process of growing up for people to compare themselves to the same sex. Both sexes do it, but most wont admit it.
2006-08-17 03:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No its not gay, but its okay if you feel you are aswell!
You've asked this question alot, so obviously you're not getting the answers you want. Rest assured you'll work it all out in good time. I think you are just finding your sexual feet! Stop thinking about what it means so much and just enjoy the thoughts! Noone else can see whats in your head!!
2006-08-17 10:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by baroness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, its not gay at all. I really wouldn't call it judging girls, just sizing them up a little. Its kinda like an ego booster for yourself.
2006-08-17 10:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how you mean by cute! Like Would you want her cute or is she a threat to me cute! I am bi I love both men and women I look at other women "like" a man would! I am very attracted to the same sex And also to men there is nothing wrong with it either way!!!
2006-08-17 10:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by lori b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say that the girl is gay...
I myself look at other woman, I guess in a way, judging myself to them...
Like you see a famous actress on television, and you say " oh she is pretty".. that doesn't mean you are gay...
Thats just my opinoun... =)
Have a great day
2006-08-17 10:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by mandy85_109_2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People judge people all of the time. We form our first opinions about people on their outer appearance. No. It does not make you gay.
2006-08-17 10:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No that doesn't mean you are gay when you lay down and sleep with a woman for sure you know there is something totally wrong then.
2006-08-17 10:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, women/girls tend to look at other women/girls. We like to see what their wearing , their hair, skin tone all different things. Doesn't mean we like them but we just have a tendency to size up the competition.
2006-08-17 10:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No that is perfectly normal. Females are intrinsically more competitive and will tend to judge themselves and compare themselves to what they consider the "competition"
2006-08-17 10:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by Raven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it means your gay. I find myselv judging others of the same sex so I can better myself or know that i don't look trashy or slutty.
2006-08-17 10:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by lighthouse lover 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋