me and my boyfriend are trying to have a baby,What are some tips to better further are chances?

Answer 1

Get Married..

Answer 2

Don't let everyone above get in your way!! You posted in this category for a reason, you are trying to conceive and who really cares about marriage anyways. Weddings are honestly overpriced and overrated these days, and people who get married so quick waste a lot of money because they end up getting divorced. My fiance and I might some day, we've been together for over 6 years and we are so in love.
You don't need to get married to better your chances of conceiving a baby, people are so retarded!!!

You need to take charge of your fertility and get to know your body. My fiance and I are trying for a baby as well and it's been about 2.5 months that I've been off the pill and no such luck yet. I'm just beginning to learn about my body and when I ovulate. In the middle of your cycle, you'll notice that you may get cramps and/or discharge lots of it and stretchy/sticky and that's when you should start trying. So if your cycle is 28 days, then you'd ovulate around day 14 of your cycle, but don't do it every day only every other, because you want the sperm to be healthy and lots of it. So start like on day 12 and then 14, 16 and so on. That'll give you a better chance. Good luck trying of conceive!!!

Answer 3

Hey mafiababe don't even trip off of what they are saying about getting married first, you two get married when you are ready. There are alot of couples out there who are not married but want a baby. As long as you both know you love each other enough to share in the special joy of having a baby together then you two don't need a ring and a piece of paper to give you permission.
Just stop trying so hard and focus on enjoying each other right now and it will happen when you least expect it.LOTSA LUCK!!!!

Answer 4

Get married. After you've set up home, travelled together a bit, had some alone together time, have stable jobs and saved money.

THEN stop contraception....and have sex often during your ovulation period....ie between 7 days after your period and 7 days before the next one. Let him save up his strength and sperm for a while between times.

Unless you want to be a single mum and he wants to pay child support for the next 18 years...I seriously suggest you shelve the idea of parenthood until you are really emotionally/financially ready....as its not fair to the child to have parents who arent fully committed to each other let alone to their offspring.

Babies CRY much of the time and need 24/7 attention...they are not romantic additions to any relationship and are most likely to break down an unstable union...even stable marriages have failed due to having kids...so be aware that it doesnt bring a partner closer MOST of the time.

You want to lose your bf? Then have his child and see how soon it takes for him to get bored and want someone else to have fun with. You'll be big, have moodswings, be needy and quite frankly, if he's asking you to father his child without first marrying you...he's got quite a nerve and isnt very smart at all.

I'd choose another baby daddy who is intelligent enough to have his priorities in order. Life is hard enough for children...without giving them, via a dumb gene pool, the IQ of a bowling ball. Jerry Springer and Maury Povich have enough material without you adding your case to the queue.

I feel for you. I know you want a baby, its so tempting sometimes...but wait until youre at least 27 to start...so much may have changed for you by then....good things/stability?

Answer 5

To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your b friend to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your b friend to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Answer 6

First don't try to hard, it won't happen, let nature take it's course, and go with the flow and just have fun, I tryed 10 years to have a baby, I gave up, just had fun, and now I have 3 lol good luck..

Answer 7

practice on my own which includes your digital digicam and the timer function (if it has one). in case your mutual pal is a woman, your convenience element should be a touch more beneficial effectual. Are we speaking nude images? if so, something i have carried out is shoot "implied" nudes, the position the viewer assumes that you're totally bare. Laying face down with an arm masking maximum of your "needs", in part grew to develop into remote from the digicam. supply it a shot.

Answer 8

get married==== grow up first....
then get married- if you are in love. then wait about 3 years or so. most divorces happen from 3 to 5 years into the marriage. but dont have a kid to make things better. more problems and more pressure come from that. more fighting, then its over. if you arent married you shouldnt be having sex.

i did but i was smart about it. but i am 37 and now my wife is pregnant, they way we planned it.

Answer 9

Get married. If your bf loves you enough to get you pregnant, he should be willing to be a man and marry you. Get married first and then get pregnant. It amazes me the girls that want babies that don't think about the work and cost involved. Grow up idiot!!!

Answer 10

Your best chance is to get married first, establish a secure, stable spousal relationship, and then be open to have a family.