i do love my fiance' to bit but u know theres just that thing where the ex always walks past you or rings you and its getting on my nerves because i feel that he is doing it on purpose to true and get me to be with him and i don't want to because i am getting married soon and i love my fiance' and i would never ever hurt him. i'm a girl by the way.
2006-08-17 02:49:54 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your ex to f**k off out your life - just because he's a sad and spiteful person, and wants you to be miserable.. don't give him the satisfaction - if he was this keen and interested when you were together then you wouldn't be engaged to someone you love right now. So tell your ex as blunt as possible to GO TO HELL. :)
2006-08-19 12:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by scorpion queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, I know you say you love your fiance and I believe you but you also have feelings for your ex that you need to deal with because if he wasn't an issue, then you wouldn't care how often you see him. I think you still have feelings for your ex. He probably is doing it on purpose but this sounds like a test of will. Are you really ready to get married if the presence of your ex is annoying? Ask yourself why you care. Your ex could be doing backflips in front of you all day and you should still be focused on your man. Just my opinion.
2006-08-17 03:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he walks past you, just approach him and ask him what he thinks he's doing. I think once you mention it he might be embarrased by what he's done and then leave you alone. But if he's the type of guy that doesn't give up and keeps pestering you, get a restraining order agianst him!
2006-08-17 02:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Bibbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly means nothing to you any more just tell him to leave you alone. If he does not stop then make a complaint against him harassing you to the police. He will get the message eventually.
2006-08-17 03:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you have to be strong and tell your ex to get lost!
He's obviously a loser and needs his mummy to spank him.
Next time he calls, tell him to p*** off, then maybe change your phone number so he can't call again. If he starts to follow you and always seems to be where you are, call the police and get him arrested for stalking you.
2006-08-17 04:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is common with some ex's they can't let go. The best bet you have is to ignore it completely. Explain what is happening to your current b/f so he doe snot get suspicious
2006-08-17 03:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Juts don't answer his phonecalls. Change your number now to avoid the same torture when you are married.
he is playing mind games. Don't let him ruin your future.
Be smart. Good luck
2006-08-17 03:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell him straight up! Tell him you are moving on without him and to leave you alone, if he doesn't get him for harrassment.
Once he sees you are on your way with your new husband, he'll get tired and bored with bugging you as long as you don't show it bothers you.
2006-08-17 02:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you entertain him? have nothing to do with your ex
2006-08-17 02:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you be very blunt to him and tell him to get lost?
2006-08-17 02:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by Wally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋