2006-08-17 02:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by elviraikuru 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well, you don't have to have intercourse...you can do other things for him. If he's good. If he's being an *** and doesn't understand that you just gave birth, then he can forget it. You're a person...not a machine!
2006-08-17 02:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months is quite a while. The doctors say you need to wait 6 weeks. That is double the time he would reccommend. The real question is after 3 months, why do you not want sex. Maybe you need to be doing things for yourself to make you feel more desireable, because being that most women do not have sex into thier ninth month, he has probably been waiting a while. I know it's been a hard time for you, but it is also hard for a man to be expected to go months and months without sex,a nd be expected to be honest, trustworthy, faithful, and not even ogle other women. You are asking a lot of him. He needs to understand you, but you need to understand that he does have needs as well. I have had kids so I understand that when you are leaking breast milk, bleeding, and feeling fat you do not always feel romantic, but you need to find ways to get back to that for the both of you. without those intimate times, the relationship will begin to have problems.
2006-08-17 10:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you not want to have sex at all or just not at his every becking call? That's a big difference . There shouldnt be any physical reason for you not to have sex.(it's been 3 months). Do you not have the desire? Are you just tired all the time? Are you depressed?(post-partum) Is he being a jerk and not supportive of you and the baby? Does he make you feel like you dont want to have sex with him? There is no way to get him to understand except to sit down and calmly talk about the way you feel.
2006-08-17 10:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by twildman22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a doctors note. If he wants it that bad then have sex with your cloths on. Then when your better you can do the real thing. But for now just fool around.
2006-08-17 09:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Medically ,there is no problem in having sex after 3 months of delivery.
2006-08-17 10:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well usually they recommend at least six two eight weeks but you should wait to get a thumbs up from doc!first and and if you don't want TO CONCEIVE AGAIN MAKE SURE YOU ARE ON PROPER BIRTH CONTROL BECAUSE RIGHT AFTER GIVING BIRTH IS THE EASIEST TIME TO CONCEIVE !! and if its just a matter of personal preference talk to him explain how you feel ! hes not the one who just had a baby!!
2006-08-17 10:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by sadeyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same with answer #1 ...but have a talk with him..tell him that you wanna want until your baby is like 4
2006-08-17 10:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him no thats all i can think of im only 12
2006-08-17 09:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by ghfr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him you can't. If he has to have it so bad jerk him off.
2006-08-17 10:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by U can't B like me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋