something happened btw me and someone i love and respect so much about six years ago but we both promised not to disclose it to anyone now this person is late, now the thought of him and the pressure on my heart want to get it bursted. im so confused, will i feel better if i say it?
2006-08-17 02:14:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i noticed that some people really don;t understand my question.I actually ment one of the two persons involved is dead, and the other one left is confused on what to do about the sectret.
2006-08-17 03:31:22 · update #1
Secrets are beautiful things. As long as we guard them well, they can keep us warm on those cold nights and provide solace in those moments of grief. If that thing that happened is something important to you (as it certanly seems to be) then don't tell it. If you tell it, it will be cheapened and become just another story 'out there.'
2006-08-17 02:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I for one don't actually understand what you are trying to say. When you say they are "late" do you mean dead?
Whatever it is, talk to a stranger who won't know any of the people involved. Let it all out, that's the only way to stop your heart bursting!
2006-08-17 03:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by rami #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean that this person is dead?
No, if you promised not to disclose it - don't.
You're grieving; that's why your heart hurts, speak to a counsellor about your loss to help you deal with it.
2006-08-17 02:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Victoria of Port 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get your feeling out in the open you should write it down as a letter or just write it down, that way u can express all your feeling and emotions without disclosing what happened to anyone.
2006-08-17 02:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Farhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell me. Send me a private e-mail. This gives you a chance to get it off your chest, without any worries of repercussions or anything. If two people make a contract, the contract ends when one of them dies.
If it helps you, contact me.
2006-08-20 14:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant you late it die also, why do you want to be dealing with the past for? keep the promise.its because you are thinking to much of it thats way its bothering you, if you are able to deal with the effect of what ever being known then go ahead. just let the past be.
2006-08-17 02:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let the cat out of the bag. Your gonna go insane if you keep it to yourself any longer. Your dear late friend will understand.
2006-08-17 03:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Yoruba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should both enroll in a remedial english class and make beautiful grammar together!
2006-08-17 02:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by le_coupe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it, but only to a very close friend, priest, psychologist and one
of them will give you advice.
2006-08-17 02:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you feel better now? If yes and you feel like saying some more please go ahead. It is always good to talk.
2006-08-17 02:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋