when she is drunk, i talk dirty to her about her fantasy of having sex with 2 men at same time. Do you think she would really go for it. And can a very loving relationship, handle an occasional wild night, llike her fantasy. Btw she claims to be bi-sexual, from day one, when we met, but has told me she doesn't desire being with another woman anymore. She did have a very wild sex life, in her younger days.
2006-08-17 02:13:24 · 9 answers · asked by sailor28_1998 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do you think that it will still turn you on if/when it really happens? there are a lot of marriages torn apart because one or both spouses couldn't handle the pressure afterwords! some fantasy's are just better left as a fantasy! they're fun to talk about and makes for a good experience in bed. but, you have to think about if you really played out this fantasy...
go for it if you're sure you both can handle it!
2006-08-17 02:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her if she would like to? However, remember, fantasy is always greater than reality, and we live in reality, and that your fantasy may not also be her fantasy. Have you thought about how you will both feel afterwards, and can you handle those feelings? If you can, you will find that such an event will greatly enhance your love for each other, in ways too numerous to state in such a short reply.
I desired the same of my wife. She always said she was totally opposed to it ever happening, but everytime I would tell her stories about it, while she and I were making love, she would always orgasm much quicker and far harder, than when I didn't tell her those stories. So I knew she wanted it, but was afraid.
I invited a friend to dinner, that I'd told her many stories about, with the understanding that he was to make a play for her, not take no as a final answer, but not to be overly agressive either. After dinner, the three of us sat on the sofa, with her in the middle, we proceeded to have a lot to drink, and finally he made his move. She asked me if I was sure this is what I wanted, and when I told her yes, it did.
The two of us are deeply in love, and although it first was her just being one-on-one with us, we have since progressed to straight-sex threesomes. She has had great sex with several different men and me over the years.
2006-08-17 02:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, If you are both in agreement! It's healthy to fantasize! Is it just talk or do you want to actually try it?
Here is some info for you from another question I answered, if you wanted to try:
There are lots of reasons that couples fantasize about another person and they do not necessarily mean that they wish to become swingers.
For one, many people enjoy watching others participate in sexual activity.
If you have discussed bringing another woman or man into your bed, a swingers club is certainly the most efficient way to find someone to join you. But you could test the waters by stopping by one. They are all over...where you think they wouldn't be!
You can see some of the action, as it's very much an adult party!!!
If your initial discussion reveals that you both are interested in swinging, you MUST develop a set of rules in order to be successful.
Rules allow each of you to understand each other's comfort levels, interests and "sore spots", and without a good set of rules, you will almost definitely suffer jealousy, and anger, and being uncomfortable.
It's a very big step in fantasizing and then making it become a reality.
The fantasies can be just as good!!!
2006-08-17 02:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is something that she wants and enjoys then yes a loving relationship can handle the occassional wild nights. Some relationships are formed around that kind of bond.
2006-08-17 02:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally two guys and me weirds me out. I have heard of husbands watching their wife's have sex with another man and that its a great turn on but only with one. Now if your wife says she calmed down on her revel days maybe she wouldn't want to do it but she is opened to the idea.
2006-08-17 02:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by roukeii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sure, it's happened a few times to us!
And we're still happily married *wink*
However, if you don't feel you (or her) can handle it, I would not do it. Some people get weirded out by it. But if not, go ahead!
2006-08-17 02:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by spike_is_my_evil_vampire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to see your wife with other men?? Maybe your GAY if you enjoy watching other men !!!! Go see a Doc and get some help !!
2006-08-17 03:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by jdfnv 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u both are agree then it will be fun
2006-08-20 17:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You da man!!
2006-08-17 02:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋