i have hurt my wife for the 8 th time by chatting to other women in a sexual manner i realized the hurt i caused the bad thing about it we are in counseling we have 11 month old son is there anything i can do please help i do love her i just think i was excited from the newness of getting to know some one i vow to stop this time and i mean it any more suggestions is it possible i am not a jerk and that i have a sincere addiction
2006-08-17 01:58:06 · 6 answers · asked by blk man luvs pussc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
make a choice? what do you want out of life? Your wife, or your faceless fantasy? real life is always better than fiction.
2006-08-17 02:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by sculptee69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what to do to show her that you lover, that you are commited to her and your family?
Very simple
Disconnect the internet once and for all
Chatting can be very addicting and you are distroying your famikly. You have an infant that needs you and a wife that is crushed and feels very lonely and hurt because of your behavior.
The only way is to unplug the cable and stay way from it! Replace this habit with positive activites that involve your entire family. Go out with them and play with your baby. Enjoy this first years of his life, they willl never come back. Cherish what you have, those idiots in the internet don;t need you, but your family does.
At the end of the day, the morons online cannot help you and they are not your friends, they are strangers playing mind games and they are probally laughing at your expense for being an idiot.
It's easy to hurt the people that love you, you know that, so stop it already.
DISCONNECT THE INTERNET NOW AND CONTINUE GOING TO THERAPHY BEFOERE YOU LOSE YOUR FAMILY.
Good luck
2006-08-17 09:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
life has become so modern and fast that people have lost the real touch of love. It can be seen from your own writing that you have hurt your wife for the 8th time by chatting sexy to another women. Similarly your wife also is very hasty in getting crossed and though you have not stated she wants to separate from you.All this precipitates to humans are considering fellow humans as commodity and want to change them if anything has gone wrong with them. The flesh and blood of humanity is getting diminished day by day. Read Indian Epics Ramayana and Mahabaratha and then you will know what is life and how to deal with it.
2006-08-17 09:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have been there, done that, with my BF... he done the same thing. Yeah it hearts, but if you love her then stop doing it like you said you have... and talk to her, if you are into all that sexy talk, tell her that. she will understand. And maybe she will want to talk dirty with you...
you can try to right her lil notes with your dirty thoughts...
See if she will do the same in return...
its fun we tried it, and then you have all that fantasy stuff, and real.
Because the Internet is not real, CYBER is something that is not real!
2006-08-17 09:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah whatever, if you were truely sorry it would have not happened 8 times. you better hope that the divorce papers or not in the mail!
2006-08-17 09:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
burn your pc
2006-08-17 09:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋