Sometimes I get so much aroused and when my places her hand on my penis; my semen comes out immediately... I am unable to control that.. it looks shamefull.. However she has a good control and I have to fingerfuck her for around 3-4 minutes.... to take her fluid out.. What can I do to elaminate this ????
2006-08-17 01:41:49 · 9 answers · asked by Stranger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
nothing to be ashamed about! It used to happen to me too at younger age! Instead, you should consider urself lucky.
Just let it go...and then get ready in 15-30 minutes...this time, you should be able to hold it a little longer...inf not, go for the 3rd. round.
2006-08-17 01:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not shameful ; it shows her how much she turns you on.
Just practice on yourself is all I can suggest.
Self-help techniques
There are a number of things you can do to help yourself to recognise the point of inevitability. You might choose to practise alone at first, then discuss it with your partner and ask them to help you overcome this problem. For more on ways to put these tips into action, see the section on practical exercises.
* Relax. This is the most important thing you can do. Have a bath, use deep-breathing techniques or buy a relaxation tape.
* Tackle relationship issues. Be sure that your head and heart are in the mood for sex as well as your body. If you're unhappy about something with your partner then sort it out first.
* Exercise your pelvic floor. Many men say they are able to delay ejaculation by squeezing or pushing their pelvic floor muscles.
* Stop and start. This is the most common technique used in psychosexual therapy. Practise stimulating yourself to the point just before ejaculation, then stop. Start again when the sensations have subsided. Repeat this three times. You should find the length of time before each stop gets gradually longer.
* Change strokes. If you feel you've gained more control with the stop-and-start technique, try changing your stroke to something less stimulating rather than stopping all together.
* Change positions. During intercourse, try the stop-and-start technique when the sensations become strong. When you're more confident, try changing positions rather than stopping.
2006-08-17 08:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other guy. Jack off more. Also, a good way to control it is to teach yourself self control. When you are "practicing" without her, get yourself to the point where you climax, and stop. Don't let it go. Wait a few minutes and do it again. Keep doin this, this will help with your longevity.
2006-08-17 08:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by jagerchick80 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you having fun with your postings, Shame on you! Does your mama know you are on the computer?
2006-08-17 08:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by True Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jack off as much as you can
2006-08-17 08:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Add Man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wear a rubber band tightly around the neck of ur d-ick.
2006-08-17 08:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by sshhrini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r getting off on the posting u put up, huh? reported.
2006-08-17 08:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep your pants on
2006-08-17 08:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do oral.. that is more fun...
2006-08-17 08:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋