It comes to you that you heard someone say something about you a few days prior(perhaps when you were walking off),but you're not REALLY sure they really said it...is it possible they didnt say it and you're just subconciously entertaining harbored feelings of defensiveness and insecurity?
2006-08-17 01:19:21 · 11 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If your not completely sure then let it go, because your right it is possible that they didn't say it. You seem smart enough and you probally already knew this answer to your own question also.
2006-08-17 01:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply ask them. Talking about things is the only way to get past them. Just don't come up to them all defensive when asking, just say something like The other day I thought you might have asked me something or said something that I didn't quite catch, would you mind telling me what it was. If they don't say anything, then just drop it. Peoples idle words aren't worth it.
2006-08-17 08:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by scare_all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's definitely possible they didn't say it and it's all in your mind. The best way, however, is to just go ask the person you thought said something about you. By the way, the thing you thought they said, was it true?
2006-08-17 19:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the relationship with that person if you can go back and ask.
If you can't do that then I'd say just let it go and chalk it up to an active imagination.
2006-08-17 08:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by delilahlookingforsampson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never let ifs stand stiff, just get on with yr life, or youll be haring voices in yr head
2006-08-17 08:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by dereckdsouza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your self-esteem sucks ... you're probably a loser and feel people do this to you all the time, but, you're not sure, you can't hear straight due to all the nasty ear wax you have accumulated. Clean up and the world will be a better place.
2006-08-17 08:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
it's a 50 50 chance...
2006-08-17 08:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by olga z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK - conversation is the key
2006-08-17 08:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill them, kill them all!!! Do what the other voices in your head tell you to do. They are always right!
2006-08-17 08:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by cirestan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its quite possible
2006-08-17 08:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋