2006-08-17 01:14:42 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i wouldn't trust him get right away from him if he can do it to his wife then he can do it to you and how do you know he has not got any one else
2006-08-17 02:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tracy B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is not living with her and is getting a divorce, then fine. If not and he is still with his wife then you should finish it however much you feel for him. It is a well know statistic that married men with other women on the side very rarely leave their wives. Are you happy to be a mistress for several years? Do you not want to see him regularly rather than when he can get away from the wife, spend holidays and Christmas with him? You also have to think of the wife, put yourself in her place. Would you want that to happen to you? These are all questions you have to answer for yourself, but my advice is to dump him and move on and find someone who is free to commit to you.
2006-08-17 01:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were seeing a man for six bloody months and you didn't pick up on the fact that he was married, then the problem lies with you, not him. He's scum and you should dump him right away, of course, but in this case love isn't just blind it's stupid, too. Get rid of him. Married men rarely leave the cosy domesticity of their marital home to set up with the spare, and when they do you can absolutely count on the unbreakable rule - if they will cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
2006-08-17 01:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wife should definitely know... hopefully, the third party hasn't invested too many feelings with the married man and she can easily just dump him.
But I'm sure this married man has already conditioned his wife that there are jealous women out there who hate to see them together and will likely approach his wife with all kinds of lies and accusations.
2006-08-17 02:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six months and you didn't know he was married? Six months? This guy must have one heel of a lifestyle if he can keep that hidden for that long. What about you? You mean there wasn't one shred of anything that would have even made you suspicious?
2006-08-17 01:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, either with or without telling him. Liars don't really deserve much of an explanation.
Get tested for all STDs, including HPV and chlamydia.
TELL everyone you know to help prevent other women being duped by him.
If you see him with another woman, tell her of your experience.
Let the air out of his tires if you are so inclined - no damage, just let the air out.
Find a nice guy who will treat you with respect.
Good luck!
2006-08-17 01:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by bluesbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i'll leave this guy and dump this relationship away. By now you should know he is lying to you all the while no matter for what reason. Don't break up other's family if you don't wish the same thing to happen to you in future.
2006-08-17 01:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by doggy n chicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) stop seeing him (duh)
2) Privately let his wife know that he's cheated on her.
3) Get an STD / AIDS / HIV test - if he's with you he may be with others and be infected.
4) Go to womansavers.com and post his name and profile so that the whole world can see what a lech he is.
2006-08-17 01:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, if you still like this guy, get over him, he made a promise to his wife not to do exactly what he is doing. This guy is trash, now maybe he just made a mistake and got tempted by you and gave in, but I think he needs to dealt with like trash, telling his wife is totally up to you, but deffinatly dont' even give him the time of day. IF YOU CANT TRUST HIM THEN YOU SHOULDN'T BE WITH HIM.
2006-08-17 01:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you are expecting to get from him. If it is marriage, run. If it is what you have been getting, decide for yourself if the fact that he is married has some bearing on the relationship.
As you are asking I would assume that the fact that he has lied to you is relevant and would suggest that you say goodbye now.
2006-08-17 01:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
Then spend lots of time with girl friends eating chocolate ice cream and chick flicks.
When you're ready, sign up for some online dating stuff just to entertain yourself.
You'll eventually move on.
2006-08-17 01:19:31 · answer #11 · answered by squirellywrath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋