I've changed my phone number, moved out of my apartment, but the guy just moved into town and showed up at my job! HELP!
2006-08-17 01:03:21 · 14 answers · asked by Shoe Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've changed my phone number, moved out af my previous apartment and the guy shows up at my job and left a note saying that if he sees something that belongs to me he'll let me know! It is possible that he is armed. I've even become paranoid driving around. HELP!
2006-08-17 01:16:33 · update #1
Keep documents of everything he sends and does... notify your employer... notify your family... notify your friends... notify your apartment managers... finally, call the police!!
Don't wait... if you have clearly indicated to this person that you do not want to be bothered and you don't owe them any expenses or property; notify the proper authorities.
If you're in a town where no family and male friends are nearby; invest in a small dog and a handgun (with a safety course). Keep the dog in the apartment, and you will know immediately if someone decides to come by late at night.
If he breaks in, announce that you are armed and know how to defend yourself. If he insists... oh, well.
2006-08-17 02:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to contact the police immediately. If there is a documented history of this behaviour the police can help put an end to this. If you haven't already done so have a restraining order put against him. Make sure you tell the police the lengths you have gone to in order to be free of this person. This person is unbalanced and his behaviour could escalate. You need to act on this ASAP.
2006-08-17 01:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Karen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to go to the authorities, an attorney & your boss. Involve your friends and family! There are stalking laws that give you legal rights so make your report to the police, get your attorney started on the lawsuit and tell your boss about the situation. Above all make sure your friends and family are informed and involved for support. I have been there with my Ex so stay calm and Good Luck!
2006-08-17 01:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get a protection bond against him perhaps he has been arrested before and the police clerks office will let you file one unless you have had abuse theres you cant file one but you can file a complaint.. if u have fear. do nto talk to him tell your boss to have him arrested if he comes on the premises.. what made this ex feel or lead on to come to you.. soemthing may have give him teh wrong impression.. this is nothign you should try to deal with here go to the polie clerks office if you feel he will harm you .. at least ask fro a police record and they will ask you the reason then the sargeant will either allow u to see them or not but at least youll be in the right place..
2006-08-17 01:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move out to the next town over.
2006-08-17 01:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by HarvardMed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Document it through the local police agency. If it becomes too creepy, have a restraining order issued (about $10). Better safe then sorry.
2006-08-17 01:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better get some legal help or get a court order that he has to stay away from you. Or get a body guard. Or run as far as you can cuz a guy that crazy is only gonna get crazier and crazier.
2006-08-17 01:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by gillamacs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to report this matter to the police. You also need to inform him of what you have done concerning the police. Make it perfectly clear to him that you are no longer interested. I'm sure he'll get the message.
2006-08-17 01:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a Peace warrant and use it if he comes near you he gets locked up Have a male Friend talk to him about how easy it is to fall down the steps!
2006-08-17 01:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you ever do to this guy is the first place,,, he needs help, you can get a restraining order against him,,, let the right ppl know hes around protect yourself,,, get help also from friends and family try not to ever be alone where you cant readily get help from others,,
2006-08-17 01:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by palettman1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋