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It is so much better after a long time without it .
Do you think im mean?
I just perfere that than get on get off

2006-08-17 01:02:16 · 23 answers · asked by spudster 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

23 answers

The person to judge whether you are mean or not his your wife.Why should you bother about what other think? You have a reason from abstaining from sex with your wife.Did you tell her?The question of being mean does not raise at all.Sex is mingling of souls and not mere bodies.Its one of the best ways to show how much you care and adore your wife.As long as your wife is ok with the idea carry on.Think you need change of scene.Take a vacation with your wife.I respect your feelings in preferring not to have sex just for the sake of it.We are not machines but people with emotions.But make sure that its only a temperorary gap.may be stop gap,but dont let the gap stop you. Discuss with your wife and take her into confidence.Communicate clearly what you feel.For this communication gap will some time lead to misunderstanding and strain in relationship.As long as you and your wife are happy about the arrangement no problem.So JUST DO IT !

2006-08-17 01:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 1 0

I will say this to you: if you can go fourteen days without enjoying that which is available, then you are not really enjoying sex. They would have to get a prison as strong as the French Bastille to keep me away for so long-except she is ill.

Now here are some things to do:

1) Place much emphasis on love making and not on sex. Look man, if the penis needs some rest, use the finger, the mouth.
If her vagina is tired, use her breast and her tongue and other parts of her body.

2) have some beautiful romantic walks to somewhere like the park, to visit a friend, to buy an ice cream or just to go look at a tree.

3) Watch some good sexy movies and try some of the things they do in some of these movies. you would be surprised how these activities can lively up your sex life

4) Finally, play many different games with your wife. his might just brighten up both of your life.
BUT DO NOT STARVE your WIFE of SEX

2006-08-17 01:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0 0

You are funny. My husband and I tried that but it lasted all of two days. Just the idea of not being together turned us both on. Now we are going through that because he just started a new job in another location and I have to wait behind to sell the house. It will be fun when we are back together again. Have fun!!!!

2006-08-17 01:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I don't think that anyone man or woman should ever with hold sex from their partner for any reason! That is just cruel! When you love someone you want to make them happy, how could she possibly be happy with that? If she agrees to it, then yes, go ahead, but I think you should discuss it first! Good luck and God bless!

2006-08-17 01:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by iLoveDawnDawn 3 · 0 0

No not mean and it can work under the right circumstances. But it can also work agaunst you too. If it has been to long it may make the tides come to fast.

2006-08-17 01:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well I understand where you are comin from because my husband and i do the same thing, but the key is to discuss this with her so that she Willl not get suspicious of you and she wil not go and do something stupid for revenge.

2006-08-17 01:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why don't you just get her off and not yourself. Then you'd both be happy and you wouldn't have to worry about being mean. She might start looking else where.

2006-08-17 01:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by eva c 2 · 0 0

I would be very surprised if you can hold out longer than she can...usually women crave sex a lot more infrequently than guys

2006-08-17 01:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by grl_addict 2 · 0 0

Yes, I think you're mean. That's controling and lame. Loosen up.

2006-08-17 01:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0 0

The divorce papers are in the mail.

2006-08-17 01:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0 0

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