I know this question is asked a lot but I don't know if I'm bi or gay or straight but with gay fantasies, I fantasize about doing it with men, when I walk down the street I always take a double take on guys wearing leather, and some gay porn also turns me on, but then i enjoy looking at Victoria Secret catalogs, well it doesn't turn me on as much as the things I explained earlier but I can't help but look at them and beautiful women . It confuses me even more, when guys touch me or hug me, I get an uncomfortable feeling, sometimes disgusted but I enjoy it when girls do it and also I hang out with girls more but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy hanging out with guys. Please help me!
2006-08-17 01:00:55 · 12 answers · asked by puppylo16 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You just need more time and more experience with the world. If you are gay, you'll know it. If you have to ask, either you haven't been around enough to experience all the feelings, or you aren't gay.
When I say experience, I don't mean you have to have gay sex. I just mean you need to meet more people, see more things, get to know the world around you.
2006-08-17 01:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the only one who can answer this question.
I'm guessing you're pretty young. Regardless of your age though, I'd recommend dispensing with the labels for now: don't worry about whether or not you're gay, bi or straight. Instead, remain open to the possibilities and follow your instincts. Time will lead you in one direction or another. In the meantime, just enjoy whoever or whatever attracts you.
Not to discourage you, but I know many mature men that lived most of their adult lives as "family men" - got married, raised a family, etc., before eventually coming to terms with their attraction to other men. That's why I advise you to refrain from making a choice, and let your heart lead you.
2006-08-17 01:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by nyboxers73 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOund like you are human and coming into your sexual awareness. Dont put labels on anything just yet! Just see what and who you like more and go that direction! Then you can label if you feel the need!
2006-08-17 02:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound bi-curious to me....but only you know. If think you might already know the answer to this question but you want to know what other people think. so good luck with that.
2006-08-17 04:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by zorroinmybed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u sleep with a women, then sleep with a man, then sleep with both women and men. Then decide. Its not that hard.
2006-08-17 02:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may find yourself to "like" guys, but have you had sex with one?
Does the thought of that make you sick?
Dont ask, figure it out...
Its all good...
need to talk more about im me...
2006-08-17 01:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds bi to me
2006-08-17 01:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your definitely bi
2006-08-17 01:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by krystal_engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to ask yourself no one knows but you
2006-08-17 01:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by crazzykid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg... i didn't even read ur stupid thingy if ur atracted to boys then ur gay if ur attracted to boys and girlz then ur bi...
GEEEEEEEEEZ !
2006-08-17 17:20:37 · answer #10 · answered by [Teddy♥Bear] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋