single bloke with four children
2006-08-17 00:52:19 · 18 answers · asked by kevin d 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ive had several relationships with Aussie blokes, it probably has something to do with the fact that i am from Adelaide though .....lol
2006-08-17 00:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Do you love him? How old are his children? Do they stay with him permanently? Where is the mother and why did they break up? Is he a good father? A good partner to you?
Then ask yourself some questions. Can you support a man with other children? Are you ready to become part of their lives and treat them with affection and respect? Do you want more complications in your life at this minute? Are you settled and willing to stay with this man forever?
I think that it's fine for you to continue having a relationship with this man so long as you are both honest with each other about the situation. However, I don't think that you should get involved in the lives of the children yet as if the relationship breaks down, there are four other people who may potentially get hurt. Take things easy and slow but think about it carefully. I don't think it's selfish if you don't go out with him, at least if you end it now, there's less chance for people to get hurt.
2006-08-17 02:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by roxpox99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nationality should never come into it...
You either want someone or you dont .. if you are saying .. would you do a distance relationship then I dont personally think there is anything against it as long as you go into it with your eyes open to the obvious obstacles ..
Same goes for being with someone with children .. I am with a lady who has two teenagers .. it takes some adjusting at the start but now they just add to the fun we have together and I wouldnt swap the package for anything :)
2006-08-17 01:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking if an American woman would have a relationship with you? Well, I'm an Aussie and I don't see why culture makes a difference.
Have you tried asking any Aussie women or are you purely looking to move overseas to the U.S?
I hope you find what you are looking for!
Love and joy to you.
2006-08-17 01:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon the bloke.
2006-08-17 00:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Aussies are lovely folk. Good luck to you mate.
2006-08-17 01:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but not one with 4 children - he'd never have time for me! Anyways I want to start my family from scratch...
2006-08-17 02:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if i was single, im divorced mum of four, now engage to new man
2006-08-17 01:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by rosaleen h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were orlando bloom, no make that Russell Crowe
2006-08-17 02:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by deet deet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not? - obviously you need to be prepared to move out there at some point potentially though
2006-08-17 00:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋