my question is: if somebody loves you very much, and he is not very beutiful or handsome or even handicapped. but loves you more than his life, can do anything for you girls. What will you do? accept him? or not? even if he is a life giver for you.
2006-08-16 23:15:11 · 26 answers · asked by must read 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If he doesn't have good looks, but he has a "heart of Gold", I would definitely accept him. I am speaking from my own experience, and we've been together 7 1/2 years now. Go for it!
2006-08-16 23:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what anyone thinks, but in the long run it really DOES matter what is on the inside. Eventually attractive people get ugly and wrinkled just like everyone else, yes they can get face lifts or whatever, but then they look silly all plasticy and fake. I believe when you are married for 30 years, I think you would rather be with a considerate, kind person not the a**hole that used to be hot now he is an a**hole and old. When I was young looks mattered I admit, but it wouldn't now I am older and less shallow.
If someone is handicapped, I guess it depends on his limitations, and how you feel about them, I would see absolutely nothing wrong with dating a handicapped person. Lots of them get married have, kids, have jobs live normal lives.
2006-08-17 03:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you should always accept people for who they are, you cant judge people. As far as the feelings are concerned, do what you feel, everyone on here is going to give you THEIR opinion & feelings.....what matters the most in situations like this is your opinion & fellings. Life will bring you ALOT of difficult decisions and situations, some will hurt you some will make you ahppy some wont matter to you but you have to deal with them the best you possibly can...and remember people make mistakes, it happens to everyone, so if a wrong decisionis made accept it and move on but never make the same mistake again. You dont ever OWE anyone anything as a result of how they feel for you or what they have done for you, if people dont do things or feel things from their heart, and expect something inreturn then it was not real. Go with your gut instinct.
2006-08-17 03:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by nmaponte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would accept him. You don't just reject people because they may have a disadvantage in life unless the person rejecting is shallow. People now a days are getting really shallow and it's wrong. I hope this helps you. If someone you know isn't accepting you and this question is about you then I want you to know there are plenty of people out there for you that arent to into themselves.
2006-08-17 01:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by instilleddistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this. none of the answers given would help u. becos, people answering do not have the same situation like urs. everyones mind set up is different. so don't rely on others.
u ask urself, will u regret ur decision later, if u accept him? r u broad-minded enough to love somebody whoz not equal to u in any way like physically, financially etc.?
depend on ur mind and heart to take decisions regarding ur life. good luck!
2006-08-16 23:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by priya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would accept him no problem i believe whats on the inside counts more than anything it doesnt matter what on the outside as long as i can have fun w/someone and i know they're not judging me im fine
2006-08-17 02:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by JWO teddy bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the same way for him you shouldn't worry about this. What happens if you've been with him for 4 years or so and then he or you has an accident and can't walk anymore - would you leave him purely because he's in a wheelchair?
2006-08-17 00:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by dancingalicat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as you love the person and the person loves you.What should matter and who cares what others think about it.
Now if it was me and I felt the same way as the other person did,I would be with him no matter what.beauty is on the inside...Good Luck
2006-08-17 00:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by ~Devilz~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well remember it is the inside that counts is this guy
A) Nice
B) Sweet
C) Caring
D) Funny
if so than i wuld say yes to him because looks is only a bonus
2006-08-17 02:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd accept them of course, but I'd be honest about whether I loved them as much as they did me. I'd also want them to obtain happiness from elsewhere too, not me being the primary source.
2006-08-16 23:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by Louise B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋