2006-08-16 22:25:23 · 23 answers · asked by jersie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be yourself.Theres nothing more to it.
2006-08-16 22:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, most people would think that this is a shallow question. I think that when you're in school, or in the workplace it's always going to play a part in your happiness. I don't care who you are, everyone likes to be liked. It gives you confidence. I'm assuming you're in high school, and in high school it is harder than any other time in life. The worst thing you can do is try to buy all the right clothes and do whatever it takes to hang out with the "popular" kids. I tried that for a year or so and it only made me hate myself. The best thing you can do is get involved! Join some sports, help put together assemblies or try to get on the ASB. Be a good person, make friends with people and never talk bad about anyone (it will always come back and bite you in the ***.) Don't do stupid things that will cause negative gossip (like hooking up with random guys.) And its always good to maybe be...a little bit fashionable. Even if its not what everyones wearing! Remember, you can blend in and be like everyone else, or you can really be your own person and your popularity will sky rocket!
2006-08-16 22:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by Cindie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i understand why you want to be popular. first thing that comes into people's mind is to be yourself. but now, are you being yourself already and still not popular? okay so now im going to teach you. this world is realistic. whatever it is, i seriously can say, most people mix around with those who are pretty and handsome yeah? most of the guys (i said most) go for looks. if you want to get popular among guys, first thing you should do is to change your hairstyle to whichever suits you best. secondly, put on a smile whenever you are. you wont like to see someone looking so gloomy and first impression is that this person aint someone friendly. thirdly, you need to socialize with people even if you dont know them. sometimes when you go to the toilet (it can be anywhere), for exmaple you can say something like "OH MY GOSH! WHERE DID YOU BUY THIS SHOE FROM? I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR IT SINCE LAST MONTH!" then continue the conversation for as long as possible. but remember, smile!! and next time when you see that person again remember to say hi or wave at her/him. if possible, for the next few times talk to her/him for as long as possible and exchange contacts when the time is ripe. not only looks are important, beautiful figure is too. no figure, mean nothing. thats what happened to me. i've now slimmed down to 26 inch, but im looking foward to 24 inch, which is the most perfect waistline. but one thing terrible about me is that my hair is very extremely messy. okay, if you want to get more popular, mix with popular people, and they will introduce you to more people which makes you popular. i hope this will help!
2006-08-16 23:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to be popular as you put it is to stop trying to be someone everyone else wants. Just be yourself and your confidence, not cockiness, will be noticed by others.
2006-08-16 22:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by River 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y do u wanna be popular? Isnt it better to haf one good fren compared to a whole group who are only using you for ur 'fame'? Either ways, bring popular is nthg special.. but u can be popular by being nice, help out.. be nice and mix around.. be sumone's fren when he or she needs sumone.. even if u dun become popular, u'll be a someone to somebody.. gosh dats sounds confusing even to me.. i hope u get wat i'm saying :) gud luck
2006-08-16 22:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change ur name name to popular
2006-08-16 22:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by Prakash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By joining film and acting with popular stars.
By becoming SINCERE social worker.
Because sincere people are not available now.
2006-08-20 05:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be so popular that in the end no-one notices u at all...
2006-08-17 02:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by gaWjus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B yurself..if poeple dont like u for u, then **** them and find people who do. being popular to me is not all that. it causes more problems in yur social life like rumors or other things in yur relationships and friendships.popularity sucks to me...
2006-08-16 23:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give out free beer.
or just be yourself.
actually, don't strive for popularity. its overrated and most of those kids probably aren't even real friends. its not worth trying for. just be yourself, meet people who like you for you, and have fun. don't set a social standard for yourself. just befriend the people you like, not the people who don't like you.
2006-08-16 22:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey....... u can be popular with ur talent and ur skills
just try to keep ur right foot fwd and u'll see that day is not far enough when u r not popular
All The Best!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-20 20:56:29 · answer #11 · answered by Adi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋