I have a male friend that i know is not boyfriend material but is great in bed. We have a lot of fun but i'm scared that i will one day fall for him even though he's made it clear he's not looking for a serious relationship just yet. should i back out now?
2006-08-16 22:18:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sex always complicates a relationship. It's hard not to get emotionally attached to someone you are sleeping with.
But if you're not looking for a serious relationship then enjoy the relationship.
If later, you decide you want something more and he doesn't, then it may be time to move on.
2006-08-16 22:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yea is what I say. I mean falling for ppl happens pretty damn quick, girl. I mean you could be having sex with him and the next thing u no the words I love you come falling out your mouth. That would be toatally awakward. And besides you don't want deep feelings like that to ruin your friendship, because he would become distant like guys do when feelings are put on the table. So I tell ya you should let him go now before you get too caught up.
2006-08-16 22:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to turn into a mess. He's not wanting more, at least not now and you may be leaning that way. At one point, one of you will want more and the other will not be ready or willing to commit. It will be hard but get out of it now and move on. Next time, leave friends as just friends. Hope this won't be too hard on you.
2006-08-16 22:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 00:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very naive immature girl if you think putting out regularly with him will eventually make him love you...get over yourself, you're nothing but a bit of fluff, no man wants to commit to a girl who puts out as easily as you do - He wants a woman who has an exclusivity about her sexuality - You will never be that girl - Live by this motto "You dont get nowt by putting out" and you may have a chance at happiness with someone more deserving.
2006-08-16 22:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think a guy and a girl (or guy and a guy, or girl and girl foir that matter) CAN have a stirctly sexual relationship or be friends "with benefits".
However you expressed a concern that you will fall for him- if you see that as an option it means you know it will probably happen- so I say back out and spare yourself the trouble and heartache.
2006-08-16 22:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by July 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male & female are opposite genders and their friendship will not be restricted to without sex.They feel themselves therefore it is quite possible that ur relation is turned sexual.Therefore, if u intend not to make sexual relationships with that guy then back out now.
2006-08-16 22:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be sure that you are happy with just sex without going further and be prepared for the consequences if you fall for him. Why would the fellow go into a deeper relationship if he already has a good friend and sex?
2006-08-16 22:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by Just John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex, changes the mindset of one or both partners. This would definitely "mess" things up with you and him. He 's not looking for something serious. When it comes to sex, it is serious. Back out now for your own sake.
2006-08-16 22:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you want. If the present situation suits you go on like that. If you feel you might want more and there's no hope for that, or if you just feel it's not right, quit it. You can still be good friends.
2006-08-16 22:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by Miracle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋