friends who dont judge you and that are always there for you are good to find, so when u do hang on to them forever. Boyfriends will come and go but friends are for life
2006-08-16 22:07:50
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answered by Anonymous
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By adapting human relation principles. Read on:
HUMAN RELATION PRINCIPLES
(Nine ways to make people adore you)
1. Don't criticize, condemn or complain
2. Give honest, sincere appreciation
3. Arose in the other person an eager want
4. Become genuinely interested in other people
5. Smile
6. Remember that a man's name is to him the sweetest and
important sound in any language
7. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
8. Talk in terms of the other man's interests
9. Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely
-DALE CARNEGIE
2006-08-20 22:28:45
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answered by Anonymous
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dear priya
there is no sureshot way of finding good friends. no one has mastered the art yet. it takes a lot of time and effort to build a good friendship. just find someone who can see the pain in your eyes when others believe in the smile on your face. i'm sorry if i am wrong but ur question makes me feel like u have been betrayed by a friend. it happens. if ur friends have faults, forgive them and look at the times when they were there for you. everyone makes mistakes. no one is perfect. so if u want a good friend, give someone a chance. if u feel u can do with a new friend, u can always start with me. i am not perfect. but i can always be a good friend.
2006-08-17 05:14:28
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answered by swordfish 2
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there's nothing like selecting good friends.we only make them.moreover they are so rare that u can barely dare to select!it is only that u have to be very careful while looking around for them so that u don't bump into the wrong people who'll later on betray u.
so,guess i was of some help.
good luck.
2006-08-18 09:33:24
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answered by asp 2
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Select those you can get along with and those you think can do good to you. A friend is someone who will always be there for you in good and bad times, someone who is honest and respectful, someone who will not lead you to harm...
2006-08-17 05:14:11
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answered by jio 1
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You cannot select a friend to start of with you have to be acquainted to people and then select friends among them ..............in short you confer your friendship on a person only after knowing his virtues and strenghts not before,,,,,,,,,,,,before they all are only aquantainces
2006-08-17 05:13:50
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answered by Practical 3
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well if anyone know how to people would not be dieing every day over he say she say things
But you can find out if they are a good friend if the remember things about you
if they are welling to help you when you are in need
and you know if they have a good heart or not
2006-08-17 05:10:39
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answered by yomom 2
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well, 1st, be yurself. 2nd, find peopel who like u for u. dont care about the style,religion,etc. just find someone cool. if u only go by style,religion,music,etc. u will fail finding good friends.
for example. if u r goth, a satanist or jams death metal music. find friends like u but they dont have to be identical. find people with cool personalities. dont go by appearance. becuase appearance can fool u. u may think becuase that one person has a cool shirt on, which means dont befreind them because u like their shirt. complements r good but get to know about them before u deside they r a friend. this dont matter yur age.
this is for all ages. i just turned 24 and i make friends with anyone any age,style,sex,sexuality,religion,etc. i dont care what u look like for friends or yur race or condiction. remember there is good and bad in all people. and, before i forget, dont care if they have a disability. if a person wants to get ot know, and they maybe blind,retarded or deaf, then give them a chance anyway.noone is perfect. i have a boyfriend who is disabled mentally and i love him to death. he is very sweet. he is a guy i would marry,though, i have no disability. poeple pic on me and him (old and young) becuase he is also partually retarded and they tell me not to be with him. he looks fine and is very sweet. ignorant people really anger me becuase they r so close-minded...
2006-08-17 06:38:47
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answered by NONAME 1
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We select the good firends with the help of their behaviour with their simplicity.
2006-08-17 05:28:29
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answered by gajendra k 2
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there isn't anything like 'good' friends. friends are good when you like being with them just the way you are and don't have to pretend about stuff and when they don't pull you down and get you into crap like drugs and smokes and vodka. don't ever look at friends in terms of cars or money or clothes and class and things like that. you'll just end up totally confused and insecure and ultimately, friendless.
2006-08-17 05:10:51
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answered by s e 2
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