2006-08-16 22:00:44 · 14 answers · asked by dips 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Your strong sex drive is a gift from God, so be careful in handling it. A gift opened at the right time will preserve and deepen its meaning for all time, so don't peak under the wrapper.
If you’re like me, you’ve been told that sex is bad. But when you ask why, you hear something like, “It’s just bad, so don’t do it,” or “You’ll get a disease or get pregnant!” While I’m sure you realize that sex has its consequences—and they might be bad if they happen—these reasons aren’t always convincing.
Our generation has been taught how to avoid venereal infections, but what we really want to know is how to find, build, and maintain a relationship of real love. Sex is supposed to be a great gift, so it’s easy to get tired of hearing about the diseases and unwed pregnancy rates. If you’re ready for a different approach, and you want the gift of sex to be as great as it was meant to be, read on.
“How do I find love?”
Everyone wants love. Everyone longs to give himself or herself to another. We’re made for love, and that need in us is so deep that many would rather risk getting pregnant or getting an STD than live without love. We may be willing to take these risks because the world tells us that sex equals love. Then we see relationships in which sex destroyed love, and we wonder what went wrong. The only solution capable of breaking through this hurt and confusion is the virtue known as chastity.
“What’s chastity?”
Chastity is a virtue (like courage or honesty) that applies to a person’s sexuality. It means that you take all of your sexual desires and order them according to the demands of real love. For example, when you love a person, you make whatever sacrifice is best for them and you do whatever is necessary to keep from harming them. Chastity means that you take this definition of love and apply it to sex.
Some think that chastity simply means “no sex.” But that’s abstinence: focusing on what you can’t do and can’t have. Chastity is what you can do and can have, right now: a lifestyle that brings freedom, respect, peace, and even romance—without regret. Chastity frees a couple from the selfish attitude of using each other as objects, thus making them capable of true love.
2006-08-16 22:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a problem if you keep it private and don't spread it to everyone like the gay pride people do. It would be a turn off for a guy if you wanted to have sex with other guys but if you just wanted the one, then it would be awesome.
2006-08-16 22:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Khali sucks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as a general rule, but you have to put it in check. Sex is not the only thing in a relationship, just keep that in mind.
2006-08-16 22:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see many guys having a problem with it as along as you aim all the energy at your partner and no one else. Sounds more like every guys fantasy.
2006-08-16 22:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Elim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not it ant guys love sex, they cant help it they love it....i know that for a face cuz im a guy...haha....girls that love to have sex...are the best....if they haven't had sex with every guy the the city...but if you only had sex with 1 or 2 guys that good!
2006-08-16 22:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by mixed_wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raging hormones huh? Its my fantasy to meet a real hot momma. Sigh!! I can only meet them on the internet!Okay, back to fantasy, boy!
2006-08-16 23:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by cellm8te 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start masturbating,before you do something wrong,but there are lot of your brothers be care full don't rape any girl ,rest girls can Handel you very well don't worry,in ocean you will be get lost.
2006-08-16 22:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some may think u r a nympho.
think it wise to learn to restrain a bit
2006-08-16 22:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all... Mention your city in the question and if it's bangalore, kindly get in touch ;-)
2006-08-16 22:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by Happy2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem at all ! Whats your address
2006-08-16 22:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by SAREK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋