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I'm 32 years old but I've hit rock bottom. I have little choices left and can't deal with the pain and darkness anymore. I'm not looking for anyone to talk me out of this. Just some answers on how I can choose how I want to go out. I've considered crashing my car into a pole or off a bridge so that it would be one less bill for my girlfriend to deal with. Does anyone know if you get into an accident such as that do the insurance companies forgive the bill?

2006-08-16 21:57:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

18 answers

Just find out where North Korea is aiming their next missile.

2006-08-16 22:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by protos2222222 6 · 0 2

So basically you want to ad the words "He was a coward" to your headstone as well. You know after my parents died last year and I lost my job b/c I couldn't get over the guilt that I hadn't lived upto or even close to my fathers expectations, I too, considered what it would be like to cash in my chips. Then a friend of mine turned me onto The Elements of Zen.

In the pages of this book I began to realize that what waits in the beyond might be a lot worse than what we have here, there is a God, and quiting is not an option. Karma my friend is the ultimate equalizer.

You can sit there and feel depressed and contemplate how you can end the pain or you can sit there and take a good look at your situation and decide what you can do to make it better. No matter what that might be just do it.

Do you really think that suicide is either easy or the answer to your problems, Do you really? Consider the fact that we humans know very little about the afterlife, then consider the fact that you're contemplating destroying one of Gods creations. Do you really think that your life is yours to do with as you please? Think again. And how many people end up paralized from car accidents? If you think your life sucks now, think about how bad it would be sucking on a tube for the rest of it while someone else wipes your butt for you.

Just sit down for 5 minutes, breathe in and then breathe out and think about all the things that you can do to make your situation better. Just 5 minutes.

2006-08-16 22:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by lifhapnz 3 · 0 1

Only the person who has died from a suicide can say for sure if it is painless or not. Having been very close to death, three times, the last just as they were shoving a tube down my throat and into my lungs, I can tell you that the brain does some strange things. You can live a life time in those few minutes. The act may be painless, but what the brain can do with those last few minutes can be very unpleasant. Especially if you carry any beliefs regarding life after death and hell. As the body shuts down, the brain is left only to feed on itself. Any of those beliefs suddenly becomes very real, and could become very painful, if only in your head. Fortunately, I didn't have any such beliefs, so I didn't experience any of that, or the so called white light. I dreamed about traveling in time.

2006-08-16 22:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You are by far the most selfish person i have come across tonight.
So YOU want a painless why out of problems that can be solved.
What about those you will leave behind!!! It will be harder on them. You say you don't want to leave a bill for your girlfriend, WELL YOU JUST OPENED AN ACCOUNT WITH A VERY HIGH INTEREST RATE. You blame her for your problems and it isn't fair to her at all.

Break up with her then wait a few years to let her get over you then my friend after the reason you want to martyr yourself for is gone, SHOT YOURSELF IN THE HEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ALL YOU WANT IS PITY. OH! WORLD CRY FOR ME PLEASE.
sorry but the world is tired of feeling sorry for losers like you, the world will only tell you to do it out doors so that the mess is less.

Rock bottom there is no such thing, because all you have to do is grab your balls get pissed at the world and prove to yourself and to others that you are not a quiter.

Because if your are a quiter then what was the use of your mother bearing the pain to push you out of what you are?

YOU MAKE ME SICK!!!! I DO NOT PITY OR FEEL SORRY FOR YOU TOUGH **** DIE. Or make me be the true *** and when the sun rises give the world a good *&#@ you, plan a recovery plan and do it one step at a time forgeting the past living the present for the future.

2006-08-16 22:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 3 3

Okay if you ask for it;
Its called the practical guide to suicide and contains thorough information on all possible ways of suicide.
http://www.satanservice.org/coe/suicide/guide/
One of the least painfull ones is potassium cyanide poisoning, but its hard to get. Anyway its all in there.

Please think things through, especially if its an impulsive act, you may not want to do what you're about to do. the situation you're in now is just a dark moment in the entire picture, things can and will be better if you get through this. But I will not be trying to talk you out of it, its your life, just give it some thought.. it won't make the difference; there will still be plenty of time left left to kill yourself

2006-08-16 22:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by III 3 · 1 0

First, you should take a journey. Like, hitchhiking as far away as possible and seeing where you turn up. I mean, c'mon, who hasn't just wanted to leave everything behind, take what they've got, and see the world? Maybe it'll be fun. I'd love to but...I'm 16 years old. Like I could last on my own for more than three days. :P Think it'd be fun? If you don't care about dying, then you've got nothing to lose. Just do whatever it is you've always wanted to do.

2006-08-16 22:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sailor Jupiter 4 · 1 0

No Insurance Companies don't forgive the bill .They will come after your living family members and it will cause them a big burden. My opinion to you is taking an ice cold shower and rethink it.

2006-08-16 22:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 2 0

What about your girlfriend? Are you gonna leave her like that?
Do you have kids? A life insurance?
What "pain and darkness"? Contact me if you want to talk, if you don't, well, I don't think anyone in their right mind will tell you how to kill yourself since that would be a crime...

2006-08-16 22:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Pepe R 2 · 1 0

I have hit rock bottom several times.

YET here I am still SURVIVING. YOU CAN TOO!!!

There are MANY better choices to make instead of committing suicide!

I prefer Living/Breathing vs. Death/Dying.

2006-08-16 22:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 2 0

suicide is not a "way out." when you do it you are just releasing your current body, but your soul will re-enter through a new baby and u will have to deal with all of the same issues you are having now but those problems will occur in different aspects....that is why some people feel "deja vu," it is because their soul is "remembering" things that happened in its former body.

you have to deal with your problems head on in this life or as they say you will most certainly deal with them in the next, and the next, and the next. so fix them now. that is the only way to free your soul so it can have a happier existence in the next body it takes up residence in...... chin up, my friend.

2006-08-16 22:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

How pathetic, this is a pure full on attention seeking question. No need for sympathy just help me kill me. You are either making this up in which case you are a very sad individual indeed and need to see a counsellor immediately. Or you are serious and therefore a truly sad individual who needs to see a counsellor immediately, go on make that call.

2006-08-16 22:06:02 · answer #11 · answered by nkellingley@btinternet.com 5 · 5 1

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