I think hes hott. in his own way... and i feel embarassed when people tell me that and they want to set me up with people i say no.I don't want to bring him around anyone cause they'll tell me stuff. I think he's catching on what should I do?
2006-08-16 21:34:01 · 24 answers · asked by thought 4 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
He's really ugly and your denying it aren't you?
Hey whatever floats your boat
2006-08-16 21:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by deleted 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
You think he's hot and you care for him even though others' opinions are that he's unattractive, shame on them. If y'all have feelings for each other than that is great, don't let others change that. It's a beautiful thing when you see something special so stay with him. I've had the switch on that, your boyfriend is very lucky he has a girl like you. As of me, a lot of girls think I'm hot and I-AM-TIRED-OF-IT. I want to find a girl that cares for me, doesn't just think I'm hot, I look for meaningful relationships, love not lust. Some people strive on wanting to be attractive and if you're looking what I'm looking for it just makes it harder. Being attractive isn't anything, it's just a look and looks mean nothing. Follow your heart.
2006-08-17 04:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by i_am_laundryman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know people tend to judge books by its covers all the time... You think he is hot and he's nice to you, then why should you let all this bad things come into your mind??? He is gonna catch on with things soon, so I guess you better let him in on in it and show him how much you really appreciate and love him, not for his looks but who he really his... Spend time doing things that he likes and soon you guys may have something to occupy yourselfs with, without having a group around... And drop the idea of not bringing him around, coz that way you are sending him a signal that you're to ashamed to be seen with him...
2006-08-17 04:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Eddie Raj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should absolutely not care what these people are saying! Honestly, if they don't have enough respect for your decisions on who you want to be with, they are not worth your friendship. You think your bf is hot, he's YOUR boyfriend and you are the one who should like him, not your friends. If i was you i would tell them that i don't appriciate what they are saying about my boyfriend, and if they respect me they should respect him as well. It's not too easy to find someone who is right for you and you are also attracted to, so don't let other people ruin your relationship, or you might regret it in the future.
2006-08-17 04:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sabz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with suraj... if they were real friends they would support you and even if they thought you were making a mistake they would let you make your own mistakes and learn from them. This guy might be the best thing in the world for you and you are the one he is with not your friends. If he treats you well then they would be lucky to find a guy half as nice... looks are important, but you said you fancy him, so who cares if they don't? We are all different... I think Marmite is disgusting... others absolutely love it... what more can I say? ;)
2006-08-17 04:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by hadley_banks78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are these bitches your hanging round with coz they aren't proper friends. Don't surround yourself or your boyfriend with people who obviously don't give a damn about his or your feelings. Everyone's tastes vary, so what if he is ugly if you like him then stay with him. Don't let your "friends" dictate how you should run your life. If ppl try to interfere tell them tell **** off, if they have nothing nice to say don't say it at all. If you care about your b/f feelings too then don't let him hang around these ppl at all, i think you should toughen up and tell these ppl where to get off, disrespecting you and your boyfriend. If they're your "friends" i would get yourself some new ones!
2006-08-17 04:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say. Don't worry about what others think of him, they see him through different eyes.
To you he's hot, and your opinion is the only one that matters. You should feel sorry for those who can't see what you can see.
2006-08-17 04:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, you picked him. Of you like him for who he is, then let the others talk.
If you can't stand them, tell them to shut their traps.
If it's your good friends who are telling you to break up with him just beacause they think he's ugly, give them the boot.
The old BFFs-4-eva adage that goes "Guys come and go, but gal pals are forever" is not applicable here.
2006-08-17 08:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by xxon_23 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like him then it shouldn't matter how he looks. I personally think that how someone looks is only a stroke of luck, thats it. It doesn't have to do with how he looks like. Remeber, the cover of the book isn't the story.
2006-08-17 04:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had people tell me my hubby is not attractive and I'm thinking "And yours IS?" Maybe to me he is more attractive than yours. It's just plain rude when they have the nerves to say that. Just makes them such an ugly vain person!
2006-08-17 04:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by Yeni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you shouldn't care at all. He cares for you and you care for him too. You've seen beyond his looks and into the things that really matter. And that is more important than caring what everyone else thinks!
2006-08-17 04:41:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋