2006-08-16 20:38:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know I suffer from this condition.. I think its not as a personal when you are able to give it.. but listening for oneself is extremely more difficult.. especially when you don't agree with the answer. Also remember to follow your heart.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-16 20:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said it is easy to advise? Yes! You blurt out your opinions which need not be the right advise to the person. An advice becomes so only when the other has accepted your views!!
To take advice also, these rules are applicable. Many may say their views and options but they should be applicable to my context and my inner self should vouch for it. Then only it becomes an advice.Once it becomes an ADVICE, it is well taken!!
2006-08-16 20:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really not good at giving other people advice... probably because I'm not good at talking at all. But I noticed that people can always find the solution when somebody else is in question, and when someone gives them advice they feel too proud to take it...
2006-08-16 22:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha this is exactly me, well when u give advice, that is what u think is best for that person to do, what u think they should do, and what u think is right to do, but when ppl give u advice, u just take it lightly and do what u feel like doing, so thats y ppl dont listen, they want to do things they're way and sometimes other ppls advice may not be wats right for u
2006-08-16 20:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by anastaysia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEcause the purpose of asking a question is to confirm what you really feel inside. therefore undesirable answers will not be acceptable for u. but answers that compliments your thinking, would definitely be perceived as the most eye catching one. but remember it aint necessarily the best advice. Good Luck
2006-08-16 20:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to give advice. You're not emotionally involved and see it clearly. It's a bit harder to follow when you've got fears about security, loneliness etc etc.
2006-08-16 20:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we don't have to be responsible for following through on those advices so is easier to dispense them out
2006-08-16 20:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sometimes the advice u get u may not wanna hear.
and sometimes truth hurts.
when u give advice it easyer because u not the one who taking the advice.
hope u understand what i just said.
xxxx
2006-08-16 20:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by alan h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have more clarity due to less emotional involvement on problems not involving yourslef so it's easier to see the 'right' choice, logically, but once you are involved with a problem then emotions cloud your judgement making it much harder
2006-08-16 20:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by emily_jane2379 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why becuase we often hear the things we don't want to when we get advice but have an opinion about everything when we give it...
2006-08-16 20:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋