Hey there! what if your husband goes out once in a while and wanna have sex with the same sex? Would you rather think he is a gay? My husband admitted to me that he enjoys giving man a ******** and do it from behind but in a rare occasion. Was my man a gay or a bisexual. He likes women too. Im bewildered!
2006-08-16 20:15:11 · 6 answers · asked by Arianne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He sound as if he is 95% straight, 5% bi-sexual. In other words, he prefers women, but occasionally likes to be with a man. This is not as rare as you might think; for most men have at least fantasized about it, but seldom ever talk about it, because even being labled bi-sexual is still too "gay" a lable for them to want to be known as.
2006-08-17 02:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either bisexual or gay. If you know that he enjoys intimacy with you (as a female) then he is bisexual. But if his marriage to you is only a show for society than he may be gay.
I would have issues with him going out and sleeping with anyone else. He is your husband, marriage is supposed to be monogamous. Where is the loyalty?
2006-08-17 03:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think he's gay. I'm sorry to say it, but straight men don't have sex with men.
I would be concerned, if I were you, that he may still be indulging on occasion, in which case you are getting exposed to heaven knows what, not to mention being made a fool of.
2006-08-17 03:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say he sounds like he may be bi-sexual. He should have discussed this with you before going out and doing such things. There are risks in having an open marriage. It's a personal choice that should be made wisely. Good luck!
2006-08-17 03:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by jaymesthreebabies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes both he's bisexual.
BISEXUAL=Having a sexual orientation to persons of either sex.
GAY=A person whose sexual orientation is to persons of the same sex.
2006-08-17 03:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to be bewildered, let him have his way every once in a while, as long as he is otherwise OK.
2006-08-17 03:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋