2006-08-16 20:12:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When the two of you are alone, take your top off. If he jumps on you, he has the same feelings.
2006-08-16 20:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was in this situation before. We were friends for 6 years. You can kind of tell if they also have feelings for you. You have to weigh the possibility that revealing this may alter your relationship in the sense that it could become distant depending on his reaction. If you choose to tell him, perhaps do this in a setting that is private. Explain how you feel. Don't necessarily ask him how he feels because that can put him on the spot and maybe scare him. Let him deal with this knowledge and react on his time. If nothing comes of it, you have to be able to expect that and accept it. It can also turn out to be a wonderful thing. Either way, you have to be ready for both scenarios. Luckily, we have been together for 2 years. I wish you the best. Just think about pros and cons.
2006-08-17 08:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by nrsoul_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Sometimes the best relationship you can have with someone is friendship, and trying to introduce romance can ruin it. I would try to be as subtle as possible, test the water, bring up the subject of relationships and see how he asks. Make sure he's not dating anyone. I ruined a very good friendship once by trying to turn it into more. I have some female friends I'm superficially attracted to but I'd rather keep them as friends because I value them. Once you start dating someone there's the chance you might break up, then you won't have that friendship anymore.
On the other hand, if you think he might reciprocate, it could be the best thing that ever happened. The best romances are between good friends!
2006-08-17 03:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you can't be friends without revealing it or if you want more than just friendship from the guy, then I would suggest you break it to him gently.
Of course the backlash is that the guy might feel you are getting way too close and distant himself from you.
You have to weight the pros and cons.
2006-08-17 03:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your friend how you really feel. If he doesn't feel the same tell him to forget about it, that you will get over it and that you would like to keep being friends.
2006-08-17 03:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by metztli99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell him. It hurts too much to keep feelings hidden from people.
Just be prepared for the fact that he may not feel the same way and you will have to make a decision whether to be just friends.
But life is a risk and one worth taking.
2006-08-17 03:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for all these years that you know him.. i think you can read his body langauge about how he feel about you,if i were you i cant wait this long and fall into these endless whirlpool of confessing or not.for me, i'll confess be it what because i don want regret in my life later on for not telling him.who knows he might be just like you in these silly contridict.
2006-08-17 03:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Shalyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him at times things like work out well
2006-08-17 03:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it........if you don't you will never know if he has been attracted to you all these years. Better to know then always wonder what could have been!
2006-08-17 03:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your another friend to test reaction
2006-08-17 03:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Dharma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋