my "friends" are have been ditching me a lot lately. and its really getting on my nerves. i don't wanna say something and make them mad at me. but i don't want it to keep happening. i used to always hang out with them. but now it seems as if they don't really want to be friends with me anymore.. and like, i have a lotta friends. but i was really close with these friends imparticular, and now everything is just changing. i don't know if its me, or if its them. and now guyz are getting involved too. i mean seriously. hoes before bros if yah know what i mean. i just don't know what to do anymore.. please help me!
2006-08-16 19:27:17 · 4 answers · asked by soccer loser0903 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It would seem to me that your "friends" are trying to give you a message. Accept that we all grow and change and it could be that your friends have outgrown you or vice versa. As difficult as it seems, find yourself some new friends who will appreciate what you bring to the table, who will motivate you and encourage you. Nobody needs friends who only know you when the times are good sweaty
2006-08-16 19:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by CLEVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We treat people how to treat us. A good friendship is like any other good relationship, you have to put time and effort into it. If your friends are not giving you the same time and effort that you are willing to give them, then maybe they are not that good of friends. Sometimes girls get too involved with their boyfriends, and don't pay enough attention to their girlfriends. You can always tell your girlfriends that you miss spending time with them, and if they react positively, then all is well, and if they don't, move on and find yourself some new friends.
2006-08-16 19:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! That sux!!! I kinda know how you feel!! You should confront them!! Ask them if you are doing something wrong!! Cuz if you are doing something wrong then you can change it!! Or if that doesnt help you dont need them!! Get closer to someother friends!!! If they dont wanna be with you then why are you hanging on??? Let them go you are way better then them!!! Anyway i hope this helps!! OK bye!!!
2006-08-16 19:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are NOT your friends. It hurts, but look elsewhere for some real friends. They may not come easy and be the ones you think you'd hang with, but they might be real friends. Your current "friends" do not care nor value your friendship. Best of Luck...
2006-08-16 19:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by cliffb52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋