since it is a shortage in good men, would you allow your husband to have a another woman, and you personally know who she is and you and her become friends. would you and your husband help her financially if she needs help, would you allow your husband to take her out and treat her nice? would you allow him time with her to stay the night. can you see yourself being a friend to this woman, instead of being a enemy?
2006-08-16 19:03:50 · 20 answers · asked by Mariam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nope. you're just asking for the destruction of your marriage.
2006-08-16 19:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by paoakalani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only if I was in a polygamy culture where this is condoned. Personally, I would not allow it and neither will alot of Americans because this is simply not our way of life. Bottom line is you're asking the wrong group of people.
If he is a good man, he wouldn't need another woman first of all. I have one of those good men and wouldn't dream of sharing him. I'm greedy like that.
2006-08-16 19:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no.. it may sound selfish but thats the way (im not sure if you are catholic) god made us to be. God created us to have and enjoy a single family. With another woman in the picture things could get complicated and jealousy could errupt, making marriage sound like hell. Basically there are good men out there if you look hard enough. There's always the one for you. Men have only one reproductive organ, not two.
2006-08-16 19:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by -Нџήтея’ѕ Ғє£ǿηу- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, he wouldn't be one of the "good men" if he would have another woman. so no, i would abosolutely not allow my husband to have another woman, i would most definitely not help her with finance problems, and i would not become friends with her, and i wouldn't let him spend time with her and stay the night. i would most likely see her as an enemy. don't blame me, not everybody can be a saint you know.
2006-08-16 19:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you getting at here?I wouldnt like the idea if I was married and he wanted another chick involved for one unless it was just being friends but would still be cautious!I'd even tell him how I felt and if he didnt like it he'd hit the road quickly!If I knew her I'd ask what her deal was too.Dont let a man do you that way because its not right!
2006-08-16 19:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kristy V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could see me kicking him out if that was going on. If it is some one who needs help that is one thing. But it sounds to me like there is more to the story. My answer in short is NO WAY. He has no business with her alone for any reason. If it were me I guess there would be some hair flying and his would be first.
2006-08-16 19:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by angeldolls4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope only drama and complete disaster can come from a situation like that. You may be friends with her for a while but eventually jealousy will set in and you will hate her and despise your husband.
2006-08-16 19:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this kind of situation work for a few people on TV. But, the percentage of it actually working instead of disrupting a relationship is very small.
2006-08-16 19:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way.What's that going to teach the children,to be treated like a door mat.When you play with fire,someone is going to defiantly get burnt,and it's not going to be the husband.
2006-08-16 19:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see it at all. That is like condoning him cheating on you. That is not ok and breaks all of the rules that go along with marriage. Does he allow you to have other men?
2006-08-16 19:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by pretty1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are talking about yourself arent you
I mean like get a U haul
and leave only the drapes
2006-08-16 19:07:44 · answer #11 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋