I think I'm either gay or bi...but I can't determine which one I am...I am physically attracted to girls, but not emotionally...but I'm emotionally attracted to guys but not physically. help? oh I forgot im a guy.
2006-08-16 18:37:27 · 20 answers · asked by vincent34543 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
"your semBI-GAY......that solve ur problem?" no...now im even more confused TT.TT
2006-08-16 18:45:24 · update #1
I dont think yahoo is the place to find this answer. Seek therapy.
2006-08-16 19:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are normal, i dont believe you are gay at all. From what i am understanding from what you said this is what i have assessed. You do like girls and you said not emotionally. This could mean that you just dont know or are not quite sure how to approach them and are not totally comfortable arround them. This is normal, even as an adult I sometimes feel intimidated or unsure arround the opposite sex.
You also said that you are not attracted to guys physically so you seem to get along better with guys, and once again I have to say this is normal behaviour, because guys share common interests and therefore there is a closer type of bond. So this doesn't tell me that you are gay at all.
2006-08-17 01:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Catt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think that I can make the decision for you, especially based on the info that you've given. I would suggest seeing a therapist or councilor. It doesn't mean that you are crazy if you see one, just that you need someone to talk to that can be subjective. It's sort of like asking questions on here, except you have an ability to express more, and therefore open up more. You seem to think that you're not straight at all, so I would suggest that you are bi. However, from what you say it seems more like you're a typical straight guy. I would suggest that you see someone and try to figure it out with them.
2006-08-17 03:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not turned on the least bit by a guy? Or at least just a little bit emotionally attached to a girl? You may be bi and just confused lol the question said that !
2006-08-17 01:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't sound gay or bi to me. Maybe emotionally you aren't ready to deal emotionally with the opposite sex. Do you have any friends that are girls? Maybe that would be the way to start.
2006-08-17 02:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by mother of Bridezilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are straight,when you attracted with someone physically,means you have feeling for them,the reason you don't feel emotionally is because you don't understand them,not because you are gay
Emotionally can involve with anyone,no matter a girl/guy/mom/dad/sis/bro
There are a many kinds of emotions,respect,admire,and etc.
Make your emotion clear first before jumping to conclusion
2006-08-17 02:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the physical and who you end up in bed with that determines your sexuality. But emotionally attracted also sways so I think you're bi
2006-08-17 11:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to chill out and relax. You do not state your age, but being more comfortable with guys is not all that uncommon in straights.Give it some time, all will become clear. Why worry at this stage of the game???
2006-08-17 01:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are straight. If all of your physical/sexual attraction is to females -- you are straight. You just need good tight male friends. Some of our straight friends are like you are -- they say that its best to be tight with gay guys -- but I think that's really because of our lack of hang ups -- it may be different for you.
Regards,
Reyn
2006-08-17 10:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't be like JR he's an idiot. He is from Texas and you know only two things come from Texas. Sound to me like you just need Jesus and bit of counseling. Peace and God bless.
2006-08-17 02:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a sinner and need to be saved by the grace of God. none of us are gay or bi that is a choice that we make. God wants us to follow him but he don't make us do it he wants us to chose to follow him
2006-08-17 11:18:05 · answer #11 · answered by beatonrichard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋