ok i am around twelve but i am gay always have been but my problem is i want a boy friend but my family cant k

Question

so any on have in school i live in huston texas i like boys alot but my family hate gay ppl i am but i am gay for some reason i want a boy friend and body have any advice about getting on

and i love being gay so dont try to change it i am so int to being gay have been since i was three so and i have had oral sex already so shut up you none agreeing ppl i love my self for what i am so you ppl chill

and i know way more than i am soppsed to know for my age i know abou hiv oral sex and stuff and sex and other thing about both girl and boy body i have liked boy since i was like 2 dudes and i had oral sex with my cousin witch is a boy so be quiet you old parents

and to you ppl i am on summer vaction and my parents will beat the **** out of my sorry for the language and i am about a week from thirteen and they dont care about me dating this young and i was dating when i was nine

and aids i protect my investment

AND TO YOU PPL I AM AN A STUDENT FOUR YEARS RUNNING I DONT THINK ABOUT SEX YOU PPL I JUUST NEED SOME ON TO TALK TO

Answer 1

well sometimes your family doesnt agree but just go with what you want i dont know anyonee

Answer 2

There Is Nothing Wrong With Being Gay But Just Find A Boyfriend Who Understands You And Your Situation And When You Feel That Maybe Your Parents Will Understand And If They Love You They Will Support Your Choice In A Mate As Long As Your Are Happy ... Good Luck

Answer 3

I was adopted by a gay couple at the age of twelve. I am now 27 and have learned one all important thing about the situation you are in:

BE YOURSELF. Nobody should be ashamed of who they are. You need to tell your family and make them understand that there's nothing they can do about it. Being gay is no more a choice than being straight.
They won't have any choice but to accept it.
Your friends at school are an entirely different issue. The only thing I can tell you is that if they're not accepting of it- even if they disagree for some reason, then they were never really very good friends to begin with. You should be honest with them though, if only to be honest with yourself. If you spend the rest of your life in the closet, I guarantee you'll regret it.
The only problem after that is going to be finding someone around your age for a boyfriend. Granted, there may be someone but at the age of twelve, it's unlikely.

Answer 4

It's not going to be easy for you, Firstly you have to make sure that this is the choice you want to make with your life, " Gayness" must start some where and although you say you are 12 yrs or so, you still maybe confused, If your family is "gay-a-phobic" as you say they are, telling them now won't help, I think you will have to live behind closed doors for some time to come. My only advice is to talk to a counsellor at school. I hope all goes ok with you and your family. Hope you get some good advice from others.

Answer 5

well you could keep it a secret. But you wont ever be happy that way. You could tell your parents. No matter how they feel about gay people, they wont hate you. They might not understand at first, say things they dont mean, but they wont hate you.
I would suggest however waiting to grow a little more. Im not saying that your choices are in doubt, but you body itself is still changing alot, and it may change your feelings. If so, then alienating your family and friends would be for nothing.

Answer 6

Your orientation is not the issue; your age is the issue. Children and or young people have a natural interest in establishing bonds with other people their own age, as well as, near their age. The fact that you are merely in the 'puberty' stage of development and already declaring your preference is disturbing to me. I do not personally care what you do socially after you have reached a suitable age to engage in that type activity; however, at this stage you represent a risk to your reputation, as well as, the innocence of those whom you may associate in an attempt to bond or forge a relationship with. In other words, curb your appetite until you are old enough to be responsible for your words and actions to other people. You could get your parents into a legal mess by trying to entice interest in non-standard relationships and practices. STDs are another concern. Telephone a health department and speak with someone who may be able to counsel you on safety measures to consider in advance of any activity of the kind mentioned in your question.

Answer 7

I agree with you on the person that answered saying it was a sickness. They're discriminating you because of your sexuality, which you can in fact, report as abuse, to your question. I don't know how to tell you how to get a boyfriend, other than being yourself. I'm straight, but I have a gay uncle, and I know how you'd feel having a family that hates them. He didn't come out of the closet until after my grandpa died, because he would have killed him (not litterally, probably disowned him though). It was a sudden relization for me at first, but I learned to accept it, besides when ever he visits, he's the perfect person to go shopping with!

Answer 8

Being gay or not is not the point I feel sad about.
I am sorry to hear that a person(no matter girl or boy) at the age of 12-13 instead of caring about his/her future and study is concerned about sex.If you want to continue like this you wont have a bright future except you like working in bars as a gay prostitute.
I only wish . . .

Answer 9

Well your right if your gay your gay and nothing is gonna change that don't listen to all those negative people just love yourself no body ever gets everybodys acceptance in this world. You will never be able to make everybody happy just remember that though life and get used to it cause you can't change it Some one else had said to wait till you get older to tell your parents they are right no reason to start the problems now just wait Hey be careful with the sex stuff you can get yourself sick good luck

Answer 10

try speaking to a school counselor, they Will help you through it. you are still very young so perhaps you should spend more time studying and less time thinking about sex. you have plenty of years to find a partner, and tell your family when you are ready but they will know when you get older and don't bring girls home or take them out on a date, parents are not silly they know these things. I would know if my boys preferred same sex partners.

Answer 11

its a shame that ur parents feel that way...sry about that but u cant date guys in secret...u need to come out...even if u parents dont like it...they arent the ones dating other guys so it shouldnt matter to them...they should accept u for who u are...i advise u to tell ur parents...dont be afraid of what they will think...and if they dont agree...well tell them too bad...but not in a rude way...tell them that's is who u are...the should understand and see things differently...but if they dont, u dont change for them....im sure u love them but u cant change how u are for anyone but urself...only to make urself a better person...(and pls dont think im saying u should change either...i have no prob w/ gay ppl, i support u all the way)
i really hope things go well for u...=)
ignore the ignorant hatful words above...they should mean absolutely nothing to u...ok? remember, u are u...dont change that...=)
omg ur not too young to know...how can u be too young to know what u like and dont like...that makes no sense...i should stop reading other ppls comments...lol...i always do that...