With my stepdad's niece? We went on vacation to where my dad grew up and i met her there. Then I started to have fellings for her, and she felt feelings for me too. Now, how can this work out? or. Can it work out at all? We never got passed a kiss. We are in no way blood related, but deep inside of me tells me it's wrong. Plz Answer.
2006-08-16 17:47:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
you are unrelated. Go for it.
2006-08-16 17:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The entire reason for making "family relations" off limits is the danger of recessive gene mutations. Since there is no family connection by blood, then it's not an issue. Some tweaked modern day people think there is some social taboo too, but realistically speaking, you have a green light as long as everyone is open to this. Speak to your step-dad about what you said here.
2006-08-17 00:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by nitr0bike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think most people would see anything wrong with it at all. There is no relation, and it's not like you were raised up being really close, like brother and sister. The main thing you have to worry about is putting your step-dad in an awkward position if things don't work, as he has loyalties to both of you. I'd check to see how he feels, then go for it!
2006-08-17 00:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by MissM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not wrong. Through marriage she is considered your cousin. But in reality she is not. I say go for it. It won't hurt one bit. Though I would keep it on the low or just come out and tell your stepdad what's going on if you think he will eventually find out. It's best he hear it from you first.
2006-08-17 00:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think anything wrong of it. She's not related to you. The 2 of ya just need to talk and see if this is really what you both want. Then just follow your hearts! There will be bumps over it but then it will be a great journey.
2006-08-17 00:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by indian princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might be some awkwardness to work through, but I don't see anything wrong with it. The only reason incest is a problem at all is because it leads to genetic disorders, which obviously isn't a problem for you.
2006-08-17 00:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by nobody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I have to tell you if it's wrong or not. Your gut is telling you that it is, and you owe it to yourself to honor and respect your instincts. If it's any encouragement to you, there are over six billion people on the planet, so it will be easy for you to find a nice girl outside your step-family.
2006-08-17 01:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ,since you are not blood related to the niece it is fine.
2006-08-17 00:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is perfectly alright because she is not really related to you, not a blood relative. Go for it and good luck. It is not wrong.
2006-08-17 00:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by Iamstitch2U 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong for you to fall in love with your stepdad's niece because that's still family
2006-08-17 00:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by jaz101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think theres anything wrong with that
but thats a decisiion you need to make for yourself
if within your own morals you can allow this relationship to happen
everyone has a different set of morals so you need to loook at your own and know if it is right or not for yourself
2006-08-17 00:53:07 · answer #11 · answered by takingoverme248 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋