Who a couple years ago were like my best friends in Elementary School and then in 5th grade they suddenly cared about clothes and fashion and we kinda seperated but were still friends But then in Middle School we never talked, all we said was hi. But they're super skinny and pretty and I'm not skinny and not really pretty. So whenever I'm around them, no matter how I felt before I stood next to them, I felt like crap. I suddenly felt like my clothes weren't as good or I felt 20 lbs fatter. I just can never feel like I belong with them anymore. I just want to stand with them and feel like I'm jsut as good as them. Because I know they don't think down upon me like I think they do. I just wish I could be myslef and not worried what they think. What can I do?
2006-08-16 17:38:43 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to not want to please them. Live for yourself. Without your friends you only have yourself anyways.
2006-08-16 17:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by paoakalani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
super skinny is not alway good or healthy true they might say oh I can get guys and all ... but in all the guy is thinking oh man! I do not know if I want to ask that tooth pick out and if they do it is because of that and not personility which is far far more important to me then that! but I guwss to each there own
I would guess that they get cold really fast in a room about in the high 60's low 70's now that is right for me!
long run your better off then they are
they are playing on there looks ... I was never one that went for that I like the girl who had a mind as well that could challenge me
cut down to a meal a day and when alone sit on the floor in a yoga position and walk around the room on your butt it might sound dumb but it tones the back side up and with in two weeks of that you will see a difference also situps help out too with some weight strapped to your belly how many situps? to do I would try 25 to start with 5 pouund weight.
2006-08-17 00:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, im thinking that u r just feeling like"They look so much better, they have perfect bods." Well u shoudn't be thinking that because everyone is different. I know how u feel. I always look at girls that have the perfect bod, the best smile. But then i just think, Well, i dont need to be comparing myself to them because i know that im me. I like how i am. I think u should to.
2006-08-17 00:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sarah you first have to love your self! You don't love yourself. No matter who your friends are or what the wear or what they do, you can't love let alone care about anyone easy until you can love yourself.
Pray for God to place friends in your life that can help motivate you to love who you are. But first know this, when you can see how God See's you, How precious, special and BEAUTIFUL you are, I guaranty it, you will love him and then he'll help you how to love yourself.
I am speaking form first had experience. If want to know more let me know at alicia_marie852000@yahoo.com
Your friend,
Alysha
2006-08-17 00:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Divine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to compare yourself. Most people are so self absorbed that they don't even notice anyone else's shortcomings. If you can realize that even though people look perfect, most struggle with acceptance issues. Try to be kind and friendly and you will do fine.
2006-08-17 00:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by okarol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always have brains over them! Study hard, go to school, get a degree, makes TONS of money. then buy whatever material items you want, but hopefully, you will realize that it was all superficial all along.
2006-08-17 00:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by FerretLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the most inportant thing is what you think about your self . Ignore what they say or what you think they say. Never think you are less than them you are the same as them. Its better to be your self than to be some one that you are than someone you are not.
2006-08-17 00:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's always best to be yourself and not be pretentious at anything. if you're not comfortable being with them anymore coz it's clear you don't share the same interest , it's still okay to be friends with them, but also expand your horizon and be friends with other people or with those you click with more.
you're still young. you're still in the process of trying to fit in in accordance with your interests, abilities and talents.
2006-08-17 01:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by paoui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on your self esteem. You said they don't think down upon you, so remember that and hold your head high.
2006-08-17 00:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress to make yourself feel good.
2006-08-17 00:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋